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To Be Happy For Him A Poem  

yesmamallthetime 56F  
4465 posts
7/2/2019 1:18 am
To Be Happy For Him A Poem


It is a lot to ask of me
To be happy for him
He found someone else
More to his liking.
I did not know
He would wield a shovel
To my gut when he said
This was the person
He had been looking for
For the last five years
I was what?
I guess the answer
Is nothing much.

How can I be happy
For someone who until
Last week
Was the man I wanted
To be with
Who I dreamt about
Who I loved kissing
And touching
And so much more
Who thought that all
Immaterial
When someone he said
Was more suitable
Came along?

How can I be happy
For him when he
Basically took
A stake to my heart?
I was considered now
Just persona non grata.

I may get to a place
Of acceptance.
But wish for
His happiness?
I am not a saint.
I may say I am happy for you
To him in a text message
But I am saying to myself
Go pump sand!

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
7/2/2019 1:19 am

Just some thoughts on being rejected for someone else...

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


MulleenofMelb 58M
3024 posts
7/2/2019 1:24 am

a saint none of us are
and so is not at all bizarre
if the circumstances twist
and good dreams turn to mist
the what is becomes what was
and seems there is no just cause
for the world to so arbitrary to be
so crushingly unkind to a you or to a me.

Thoughts in sensual pleasure to erotic writing writ.

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yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
7/2/2019 1:55 am

    Quoting MulleenofMelb:
    a saint none of us are
    and so is not at all bizarre
    if the circumstances twist
    and good dreams turn to mist
    the what is becomes what was
    and seems there is no just cause
    for the world to so arbitrary to be
    so crushingly unkind to a you or to a me.
Thank you so much Mulleen for your lovely comment. I appreciate your consolation and commiseration .

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


warriorholding 58M  
115 posts
7/2/2019 5:35 am

Maybe you are not happy for him after all. You say that to not be selfish maybe? Well be selfish. learn to love yourself first. That doesn't mean you wish him harm, just have a good life because you never deserved me in the first place.


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
7/2/2019 6:24 am

You are the better person for your words.
Nothing last forever but the earth quake and sky.
Maybe by doing what you did will be your ticket to a better man.
If he end up alone he'll remember your words and call you. (Just remember why he left you the first time is he really worth the second chance to break your heart twice).
It's good to leave a relationship knowing your the better person.

Now go out and enjoy your day.


Livin_my_Life14 53F

7/2/2019 8:18 pm

I’m sorry 😢

The best feeling is when you find the one who is your missing puzzle piece 💕


OldTatted 64M

7/3/2019 3:41 am

Having someone you put your heart on the line for to just up and go is a hard thing to forgive. If he never let you know that you weren't the exact thing he was looking for and he was still searching for it, he's a loser and you're better off for it. Let some other woman have him because she too will just have him till he gets tired of her too. Another question, did you let how you felt be known to him? If so, how did he respond when you told him? The more I read about your relationship seems to make me believe that he thought of you as a friend and a booty call. Sorry, that mat hurt but I feel he was just using you. I don't know if he promised you anything but you can look at it like he was a blessing for you.....just look at all the great stuff you are writing. Most artist feel that their best work comes from heartache, but who am I? Just some fool on a site that doesn't cater to my needs but enjoys some of the reads that are here.


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