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Frustrated with gold members  

rm_Kimber22369 55F
20 posts
5/4/2015 2:02 am
Frustrated with gold members
1st. off, Hi to everyone who was interested enough to see what this is all about.
Ok. now, anyone who has read my blog will know why I am putting this poll forward. And here it is.

I want to know how many "regular members" are frustrated with repetitive visits from "gold members" without any message what so ever.

I mean the least you could do if you're too shy to make the first contact. Is to drop us anything by way of message. I mean type in any letter on the keyboard or any number or punctuation mark. The point being, open the door for us to communicate. I'll be happy to contact you if you find that your having a hard time with that. But I need you to open that passageway. It won't cost you anything more than you are already paying. Me on the other hand, It usually cost more than I feel it's worth. Sometimes more than I can afford. I know a lot of us regular members feel this way. So if you would do us that kindness. You would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for your time.
~Kim
I don't mind if they look and don't message
I mind a little bit. but not enough to trip on it.
I mind a LOT!! Wish they would open a way to communicate.
It drives me CRAZY!! I can't stand it.
I usually block them if they're going to be like that.
Eh, Whatever.
I'm so busy fucking I don't even notice em.
Gold Members? What are gold members?


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
5/4/2015 8:08 am

 Along with what I like said, if you scroll over a picture and the "partial" profile pops up, it counts as a view. Yeah, it's stupid but what can ya do

I guess it's A*F*F's way of initiating some sort of contact. I guess they think we can't read
Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


curious19533 64M
274 posts
5/5/2015 4:02 am

 I'm a gold member who looks at a lot of profiles, I read every one of them. If there is a close match, I contact, but if it looks like there is no chance we are even close, I don't, simple as that!


curious19533 64M
274 posts
5/5/2015 4:07 am

 I'm a gold member who looks at a lot of profiles, I read every one of them. If there is a close match, I contact, but if it looks like there is no chance we are even close, I don't, simple as that! Your profile for example, you're looking for someone younger, and although I do have a sexual friend in California, you're too far away, also you're looking for women, so I wouldn't contact you.


stairs1 51M/44F
987 posts
5/5/2015 11:34 am

 Not gold here but I'd be happy to talk to you or anyone about anything under the sun.


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
5/6/2015 5:23 am

 They could be just running their cursor over your pic at places on the site other then going to your profile. I do that a lot.
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DoingStuffForFun 56M

5/6/2015 5:02 pm
    Quoting moretimeleft:
    As a gold member I must apologize to you if I have caused you any offence.
    My method is, when I see a profile photo and think they are cute, I duck in to see if there is any connection. Usually I am too far away or they state they are looking for women, couples etc.... so showing respect I leave. Some women become irate if I approach and they aren't looking for what I am......can't please them all......I have found frustration with regular members looking and not communicating, obviously because they can't, or at least I hope that is the case........Lol Happy looking.
This is pretty much what I think too.

I hop onto their profile, look around, then leave if they are too far away, the profile says they aren't looking for my kind of person, etc.

And some times I look because, have you seen some of the people here? Its fun just to read profiles. Makes me feel part of things even though I've yet to meet a human here who was interested.


txmjornir 68M
1 post
5/6/2015 11:18 pm

 I had hoped to find someone for an occasional sex. But after a year I have had very few lookers and nobody thst either answered my texts or texted me.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
5/10/2015 12:18 am

 I am to old to message others here.I pay very close attention to where my
cursor is at all the time.I don't want to piss anyone off
Using more than all the road!


LadyTeddieBear 66F  
1131 posts
5/12/2015 3:49 pm

 For me I am a gold memeber and if a guy looks at my profile and doesnt fit my suggestions of what I am looking for I really dont mind if they dont contact me and if they do and they arent want I am looking for a very nicely email them back and tell them thank you very much but I am not interested
LadyTeddieBear


rm_Kimber22369 55F
5 posts
6/3/2015 4:53 pm

 Thank you everybody that has taken the time to comment on my blog. There is one misconception though. I am not frustrated by the one time looker or even twice. But when they visit me everyday for three weeks or more. That's when I start to get frustrated. A few times I understand. But a month and more. Now, really. You can't tell me that that is an accidental roll over.


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