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Yes I am Married  

Hellboundhubby 48M
82 posts
3/10/2015 10:35 am
Yes I am Married


Yes I am married.
Yes it is a sexless marriage.
Once every 2 months.
Yes I have told her I wanted it more... a lot of times.
She said she would change ... I think it got worse.
I have gone 20 months once without sex. Don;t want to again.
Yes I should get divorced.
I stay for my . Right now I think it is good they see both parents at once.
I do not know if I am right.
Yes I know a lot of people will not agree with me.
Yes I am being quite honest.

Thank you for reading.

rm_fit4ufor3rd 60M/63F
678 posts
3/10/2015 10:48 am

I hope you find what you are looking for.


kcclaire0923 68F  
822 posts
3/10/2015 11:00 am

You say you are staying in the marriage for your young girls - do you actually think they don't pick up on the fact that you and their Mother are not happy? I didn't hesitate to divorce my daughters Father when mine were very young; I raised them myself and they are beautiful, smart professional young women with families of their own now. And yes, I take all the credit. Their Dad was not involved too much in their young lives so I applaud you in saying that your girls need both parents....HOWEVER....

Myself and many women on this site will not cross that line with a married man - it's not fair to all parties involved. Plus, who is alone on the Christmas, Thanksgiving and Valentine holidays? Certainly NOT you. So maybe you should reconsider about things if you really want to get laid or even find someone special to spend a lot of time with. If she falls in love with you, then she is the one who suffers from not having you 100% of the time - and see you looking at your watch often. Personally I won't EVER put myself in that position again. I refuse to have my heart broken twice.

Best of luck in whatever your decision is - KCClaire0923


Hellboundhubby 48M
252 posts
3/10/2015 1:46 pm

I love my kids very much and would do anything thing for my daughters.
my daughters are both quite young, not in school yet. Not sure if that makes a difference or not.
Thank you all for you comments, positive or negative.


Hellboundhubby 48M
252 posts
3/10/2015 1:46 pm

Thank you. The search is never easy.


Hellboundhubby 48M
252 posts
3/10/2015 1:48 pm

Thank you for your open and honest opinion kcclaire.
I like to think my profile is upfront and honest I am not finding the fact that I am married. I don;t expect everyone or some ladies to understand my situation.


Hellboundhubby 48M
252 posts
3/10/2015 1:49 pm

TY GottaBeMe it is good to know I am not the only one out there.


Scorpiodevils 63F  
130 posts
3/10/2015 2:18 pm

100% with kcc..


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
3/10/2015 7:47 pm

Also on board with KCC. Just because you admit to be being married doesnt make it more justifiable.


blondegirlis 56F
4497 posts
3/11/2015 6:16 am

    Quoting  :

Addz is exactly right! I couldnt have said it better myself.


Hellboundhubby 48M
252 posts
3/11/2015 8:34 pm

thank you everyone.
I don;t mind anyone ones opinions...as they are just that, opinions.
I don't or won;t change my life because of what other people think or say.


kcclaire0923 68F  
822 posts
3/17/2015 2:01 pm

You are correct blonde girls and Addz; opinions are just that and Hellboundhubby shouldn't give a rats ass about them - but you seem to forget one thing here. We that have those strong opinions about married men looking for sex only and staying married for a reason..well we who decide to sleep with them and have over the top sex with them have feelings too. Why should we just be used for his sexual satisfaction only? Why can't we have him for more of his time outside the bedroom especially if we have connected deeply? Where will he be on holidays? Not with me that's for sure. I spend those days alone, he doesn't. NO thanks.

It's because he belongs to someone else who has his heart and who he still loves deeply. Sorry, I am not just a sperm receptacle; I have a heart too and when I fall in love I expect to have it returned. Married men can't provide that to me so I avoid them and can only feel sorry for them. I will stick with single men who will give me the time I deserve and not look at his watch when he is with me, leaving me to feel badly when he has to leave.

{=} {=} KCClaire0923


skidooxp2 66M/63F  
56 posts
3/24/2015 9:13 am

Senior Sizzle is a sex site. If you find love here, it is a bonus. If you're looking for love, go to EHarmony or ChristianMingle.
I believe harsh opinions should be kept to yourself.


Beckoning_BBW 46F
2016 posts
4/17/2015 5:19 am

Just remember to take everyone's opinions with a grain of salt. You filter what you need and move on.
Nobody has the right to judge but you run the risk of getting all sorts of comments every time you write a peace....
Me personally, I welcome all opinions and have learned over the years how to let them effect me appropriately. I love it when someone comments or suggests something that I didn't think of yet.
I wish you all the best on your journey; whatever it entails.

Communication IS the key so please visit my blog!
~BECKS~


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