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You are correct, we are all different. I know you don't like the name calling, but again, who are these people you are contacting saying they are willing to be with a married person?? Most people are not open to that as you yourself have noted they don't want it done to them. You cannot give time to them as you have a wife you must go home to and why should they be with a man only part time or less when they can have a man full time? I would think anyone would know and be prepared for those names and to be told to kiss off as we know how it is viewed. I have yet to find one person that was cheated on that actually said, "Wow, that was great. Can you do it again to me?" Very few people that are cheated on, whether anyone knows the situation or not and regardless of what the situation is, end up in a divorce. Very VERY few can survive that. The only thing that would change that is if instead of 'cheating' you had an 'open relationship', your wife KNEW what was going on, and there was no sneaking around and hurting of someone with the betrayal of cheating. Kids, lack of sex, no money to do it, all are pointless once the other party finds out and is hurt. No amount of what you say to US will correct or fix what will happen to HER once she finds out and most don't want to be part of that pain to her. If you seriously expected people to rush to you and applaud you for what you are doing I am not sure where you got that idea. Sex based site or not, it is not an online whorehouse and most women don't want to sneak and be only there when you have a few minutes to rush over and screw them then leave. Now, I am not judging you, but I am giving you things to think about. It isn't all about you, many people are involved when someone steps out on a partner and if you know you wouldn't like it done to you then you cannot expect others to condone you doing it to another. Just being honest.
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MIke, I am glad beyond belief that you are at least reading the profiles and not contacting those that state they do not want married men. I understand wholeheartedly that your reasons are yours, but when you try to get someone involved with you now 'they' are part of that reasoning. You may not like their replies, but you cannot be angry that they are not receptive to it. I am by NO MEANS making excuses for horrible emails, but most people know that cheating is not well looked upon and you cannot expect most people to be polite when they hear what you are doing. I DID read your profile, and as you say you want or need a 'married woman', I would think that possibly if you stick to contacting married women chances lessen with you being called names as they are doing the same thing as you. Trying to talk to a single woman and ask her if she will be your 'side piece' with absolutely NO future, which you clearly write you are not leaving your wife, is going to fail 99.999% of the time and you should expect to get those answers. Respectful or not, you are doing something that people know hurts others and don't want to be a part of and they are not going to give you replies you want to hear. I have an entire blog of emails that were sent to me and no matter how polite they were and no matter how polite my no thank you was they suddenly have become the biggest a**hats and jerks on the planet then turning to call me fat, ugly, a slut or whore, and a c*nt because I didn't drop my trousers and let them screw me. IT IS THE INTERNET! I understand your frustrations, I really do, but you have to toughen up a bit if you are going to be the one cheating without your wife knowing and not giving any future of any kind to a woman other than to have her be available when you can get away. That is a real dead end and most women don't want to just be a side hole for guys. They can get one night stands or men that will use them as a FWB, hell they can just get laid if they want that and not have to sneak around or lie about what is going on, please remember that. Btw, my blogs are if you wish to see them: #1...Best Complimentary Emails wupdates #2...Emailslame, boring, or just plain stupidwupdates #3...A polite No Thank You can cause thiswupdates #4...Unsolicited HATE Emails no prior contactwupdates
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We subscribe to the point of view that everything we do on here is reflective of whom we are. While we respect different opinions, we do feel that it's unnecessary to go off on others because of their choices....by no means do we wear gold halos - we have on occasion posted an sarcastic jab on a blog or group post, we have our moments too. Have to wonder, as a society, are we really sincere in person given they way some folks act online. We agree there is no reason for one to respond rude, aggressively or mean spirited in declining an invitation - this goes equally for men when they are turned down. To us a person resorting to smack downs is simply an asshole and whom would want any further contact anyways. Though we do not agree that under your circumstances you should expect derision as part of expected behavior from others on here, any more than a woman should expect derision for her choices or limits, or anyone else for that matter. But the slings and arrows are not going to go away, for any of us Best of luck
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CumchatwMike replies on 3/11/2015 1:17 pm: Thank you so much for your thoughts again! I appreciate to see others peoples thoughts without them being rude just cause they oppose my point of view! Very refreshing! One thing I will do from now on that you mentioned is to stop contacting any female that is not married and looking for the same that I am. Obviously not many of us and that's ok with me! I'm not in any hurry. Everything can be said in multiple ways. I have always tried to get a point across without being purposely hurtful, but even then there are people that want to hear what they want to hear and get ticked off when they do not. I appreciate that you have been polite to my answers even though I know they are not all of what you were hoping for. Anyone here in a hurry will fail. lol A long time ago I was a 'top responder' in the Advice Lines till the trolls took over.
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8/16/2018 7:09 am |
well you hit it right on the head when you said yourself maybe someone will think of you as a douchebag cheater ..never cheated never will..i end any relationship that's going no where ....been married to cheaters after I gave them all I had all a woman could yet cheaters abound on this site that's why I never will be married or in a relationship again..the pain of finding out a spouse cheated on me was far worse than any life changing event even the one I am going through now..i will recover from this but cheating partner never..I don't forgive and forget because I just got my first husband back after 40 years its something he will never forget lol I assure you the day I dropped the bomb on him after 40 years will always see the look on his face ...priceless!!!
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