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Odd... You know what I find odd? I have been on Senior Sizzle for a long time now, long before I was "converted" to a snow bunny. During that time I received a few comments from black guys about how they could satisfy me, make me forget white guys, etc...However, I never received even one negative comment from them about me NOT being with them...not one. Now since I have started dating black guys exclusively, the same cannot be said for white guys. Everyday I receive multiple comments or emails from white guys that can only be described as hateful or absurd. Everything from how they can change me back into a "self-respecting" white girl, to how no respectable guy would want a black skank like me anymore. My favorite one was when I was called "tainted meat" now. Really!? I wonder if they think these comments will somehow "bring me back" lol  . If they were not so racially motivated most would be almost funny. Yet the really odd part is it is the black guys that are supposed to be such thugs and so disrespectful. I will be first to admit I used to be against interracial dating and such and yes I grew up that way. However, I never said nor did I act like if a person participated in such it somehow made them less of a person or an outcast to their own race. People never cease to amaze me lol . I'm relatively new to the interracial scene but I'm sure there are many people as myself who receive similar comments and ignorant remarks. Would love to hear some of your stories . HAVE A SEXY DAY |
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Stupid is, as stupid does...Haters gonna hate.
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If you know who you are then what other people think shouldn't matter especially on this site. You will always have your haters. Being Italian, Educated, White and from a racist city like Philly I was raised differently (yes I come from a racist family). Some of my best friends are black and only date white women....I found it odd at first. Living in Northern Virginia opened my eyes to a world I had never seen before. That is when I came understand that LOVE has no boundaries if two people are attracted to, care about, and want to make a life with each other it is there prerogative....not mine. So kudos to you....and follow your heart.
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Our society is still mostly stuck in our puritan past. The times have changed but our mentality has not for the most part. Society in european countries is so much more understanding. I hope we can be more open-minded in the future.
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4/28/2015 12:52 pm |
OMG Lexi! You are so right! I just mentioned on here how I would like to try a black guy at some point and the next thing I know my email started overflowing with either hate mail or white guys wanting to change my mind lol . Funny how I didn't get the same response from younger guys when I said I prefer older guys lmao! Thankfully my parents are from Sweden where racism is not quite as prevalent as it is here at times so if I DID find a black guy who "did it" for me they would not really have an issue with it. As for friends, if they are more concerned about who you date or sleep with than being a friend to you...you didn't really have a friend in the first place. You just keep being you sweet Lexi .
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1 post 4/28/2015 12:20 pm |
This what I told you when we got together baby girl. People always gonna talk shit about what they can't handle. Especially when they knows they ain't getting a shot at a hot little piece like yourself. Fuck em. You keep doin what u like. I can tell u from my experiences with you that you like what you doin and that all that fucking matter. Stay strong little bunny. you got this.
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. Yes you are VERY lucky being Swedish especially when it comes to some of the issues we encounter here. I will tell you this...if you are truly looking to "try" a black guy sometime and get the opportunity to follow through, it may very well be life changing for you as it was for me. If you have a bad experience on your first try...don't stop. There is one out there somewhere that will make you experience what I have experienced. I truly believe that 
. Still though, caught me off guard in a way the sheer number of emails lol. Oh, and you don't have to worry lol. I am staying strong and true to the bunny way of life Become a member to create a blog
