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Four days until I get my collar off,.  

passionately68 82F
576 posts
3/26/2017 11:21 am

Last Read:
5/9/2017 5:12 pm

Four days until I get my collar off,.

Well in four days I get this terrible hard collar off my neck and get a good night's sleep. YEAH. I am happy to tell you that my fingers are coming slightly. I have been squeezing silly putty for almost six weeks. Anyone interested in a good "hand job". Just kidding folks. I do have months of physical therapy ahead of me. I have to work to get the strenght back in my arms. I will post a picture of me in the brace. I wasn't going too but Wayne took me out to my favorite bar and entertainment. We have been eating out for almost all this time. I still have a bit of a problem swallowing., In the beginning I could ever swallow coffee. When they do this surgery they move your esophogus out of way and it swells. I guess they really had to tuck mine somewherer because it seems to still not be straightened out. He did do a beautiful job of stitching the incision in my throat. You can barely see it.
Some time in April I am going with my to Dallas. My baby brother is in an Alzheimer's facility there and kind of slipping away. He had a brilliant career in aero space. He was tested in junior high with an IQ of 174. I guess school bored him and he dropped out when he was 17. My father was VP at North American Aviation and he got my brother a job in tool and dye ( which is the guts of a company like that ) Well, he took off and at 29 was the director of the first space shuttle, Columbia. Then Rockwell found out he only had his GPA and they sent him to Pepperdine University where he aced a Masters degree in Business in two years while still working for them. He then left them and went to Northrup as VP if production on the B2 Shealth bomber, then went to Douglas as VP of production on the C17. I had left my first husband and lived with him and his wife for a year during that time. When he would come home from work we would get in the pool and he would blast music we like in the back yard speakers. I indroduced him to a Linda Ronstadt album sdhe did in Spanish and we learned every song and sang it constantly. Both of us had good voices and could harmonize well. He then moved to Maryland where he was President of Lockheeds Electronics division. Then Lockheed made him President/Ceo of both their Arms and Missles divisions in Dallas and Orlando. He retired from there about a year and a half ago and "boom" was hit with Alzheimers. I still can't get my head around it. I am seven years older than him and my memory is fine. I am taking that Ronstadt album with me to see if it will spark a memory in him or at least a smile.
I want to thank all of my friends on this site for their prayers, good thoughts and beautiful messages to me during my recover process. I have not words that adequately express my appreciation. On a site that is billed "the larges swingers site on the web" I have found the best of the best friends
My love to you all, Judy


elf123 73M
99 posts
3/26/2017 11:27 am

The best of luck to you, know you are working hard and getting back into super condition. Keep up the hard work, like the silly putty thingj, a hand job is always welcom


passionately68 replies on 3/26/2017 11:53 am:
Sugar I have worked hard all my life to stay in shape and this is just a bump in the road. The older I get the harder it gets but I am devoted to returning to normal. I have always been good at hand jobs but my lips are even better. LOL Thank you for your good wishes.
Hugs, Judy

benard69 66M/66F  

3/26/2017 11:44 am

Sounds like Cervical repair surgery??? Have to have that as well sooner or later myself.... Wish you well sexy lady in your recovery!


passionately68 replies on 3/26/2017 12:00 pm:
That is exactly what it was. If you have cervical spine problems I hope you don't require getting your throat slit to fix it. If you have some tingling in a finger or all of your fingers get it fixed. It can also cause muscle loss in all your extremities. Don't wait around honey. Thank you for your kind note and good wishes.
Hugs,
Judy

chacos66 57M
12 posts
3/26/2017 11:45 am

good luck hope u feel better


passionately68 replies on 3/26/2017 12:01 pm:
Thank you sweetie. I feel fine and just anxious to get this horrible collar off.
xoxo
Judy

sixforu69 77M
110 posts
4/1/2017 8:47 pm

Hi Judy, glad to know you are doing better and will get that collar off and that will help you feel better as well. I am sorry to hear about your brother, being that smart and doing all he did and then gets the kick in the ass and gets that dreaded disease. I do hope the album will rekindle a memory for him and he will start singing with it and you. In my prayers for you to get back as your ole self and yes a "handjob" is good but lips are so much better...xoxo...Jerry. Oh, Dixie and I finally got her passed the closed door and she said she felt like a virgin...lol


passionately68 replies on 5/9/2017 5:11 pm:
Jerry I finally caught up the this blog. Thank you for all your good wishes babe. hopefully tomorrow I can write a new segment. Thanks for the birthday wishes also honey. I think you are the only one that new I got a year older.
xx
Judy

sixforu69 77M
110 posts
4/9/2017 8:56 pm

Happy Birthday Sweetie, Hope you had a wonderful day and you are doing alright and have the collar off now. Take care of yourself, miss you...xoxo..Jerry


Kater_68 56M
18 posts
4/11/2017 9:57 am

Good luck .... very sexy woman


passionately68 82F
384 posts
5/9/2017 5:12 pm

Thank you dear. I am doing fine now.
xx
Judy


Slider195669 67M
16 posts
12/17/2017 5:44 pm

Hi Judy, So nice to see your blog! Didn’t realize your was wearing a collar! Your dear friend, Terry!


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