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Blogs > rm_SulikMcLovin > 40 day and 40 nights

Day 21, 19 to go  

rm_SulikMcLovin 36M
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3/18/2015 4:29 am
Day 21, 19 to go

Meh. Big deal. Seems like it should be-since it's just over half way.

At this point I just feel pretty normal. Really more at ease than before. Energetic though!

If I got all worked up and horny at this point I'd probably nut and have to start over, but

the sexual energy has pretty much transmuted to other channels.

Is that what I was going for? Don't know. It's nice having more energy- but I think I was

picturing some kind of sustained tantric heartgasm and unbridled bliss. Or some kind of

Anguish and constant awkwardness.

{Actually, I've done this before. Been a couple of
years though. Had some pretty amazing tantric experiences, and some of the
awkwardness. It usually leveled out toward day 30 or so, unless I blew it.}

For a while there I wasn't getting to sleep- had too much energy: kind of restless.

Got a bit more sleep and the libido chilled out a little- Not that it died or anything, just

quit being so spastic.

I announced what I was doing in a chatroom on Senior Sizzle to get some attention (yes, I wanted attention)

I said: 'I won't cum for another 25 days'

and someone was like 'quit bragging' sarcastically I think

But it raises an interesting point (to me anyway): What's a normal amount of sexual

activity? Modern culture gives messages like 'at least once a week or you'll get prostate cancer'

Ancient Taoists recommended 'never releasing the vital force to preserve chi' unless babymaking.

If people are going without any kind of sex, they're not really talking about it: are they?

People that preach abstinence tend to be marginalized as weirdos, or biblethumpers.

People that have lots of sex tend to be labled as whores. 'Tiger woods is a slutty man' (:

In past experiments/attempts to go for long periods without orgasm, I would play around

and bring the 'kundalini' (energy, or sexual energy) right up to the point before orgasm

then bring it back down (actually: up to the heart) with breathing techniques. Hav'nt really

brought the energy all the way up this time around. Not sure I'd be able to settle it down again.

It's worth a try. Where's the fun in just not having any sex at all? It's a relief to not be

thinking about it so often. Actually a peace of mind starts to well up.

But yeah. I think I'll start to play with tantric sex again.

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