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What do you do when?  

renoflirtybbw 63F
29 posts
1/25/2015 9:20 pm
What do you do when?

I have been emailing back and forth with a member on this site for about a month now. He seems to be flirty and interested, but he wont commit to meeting or even IM or phone.

I'm about ready to give up on him, but I have felt a connection to him from the very beginning.

I tell myself to just give up, but then he sends me another email.

How do you tell if someone is just being slow and cautious or if they really aren't interested?

ty. rfb

MajorEasy 54M
2692 posts
1/25/2015 10:19 pm

 Time to give up on him and move on...some people just need to know that someone desires them and that is enough...the actual meet up is too daunting...

I wrote something similar back in 2006 What's up with people...nice to know people don't change...
There've been too many women I trade email with...weeks and months in fact...and the meet up never materialise...when it happens to a man, most will say that the lady is not yet ready...fair enough...but when it is the other way around, knowing how difficult it is for a man in here to get any form of contact...yours sounds a little off...maybe it's a she? maybe he has been lying all along and talking or meeting will blow his cover?

Best of luck and hope you find another connection soon...
. . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...
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it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......


renoflirtybbw replies on 1/26/2015 5:29 am:
TY Major for your comments. I'm going to send one more email and then I think I will give up!

corncandy 50M
32 posts
1/25/2015 11:01 pm

 Well Reno,

At least this guys is responding to you now and then. I keep writing to compatible females near by my city but most of them want to trade their body with benefits for which i am against.

Looks like this guy either has no intention of meeting or fearing the obvious. But definitely it's a case of being over cautious !!

best wishes


renoflirtybbw replies on 1/26/2015 5:30 am:
TY corncandy for your comment. I think he has no intention to meet.

Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
1/26/2015 12:34 am

 I know it seems obvious but why don't you just come out
and ask him when he would like to meet you....seems to me
if he really is sincere then he should want to.....if not then tell
him politely to get knotted!


renoflirtybbw replies on 1/26/2015 5:30 am:
TY Owatalife for your comment. I will give him one more try and that is it.

hughjarce 68M
Ask me for a photo
595 posts
1/26/2015 1:29 am

 It's strange that he won't even chat on IM or phone so he may have something major to hide and may just be getting his thrills from the current arrangement.
It's a real shame, as mature guys like me rarely get opportunities to meet decent attractive ladies and he seems to be playing games.
I would be honest and suggest a meet or at least a proper chat NOW, or tell him to forget it; as he doesn't seem to want the same as you.


renoflirtybbw replies on 1/26/2015 5:31 am:
Yes, thank you for the comment. He is 53, you would think he wouldn't be playing games!

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