My First Year Of Blogging Here - a Blog Post by redrockrascal

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1/18/2016 2:07 pm

My First Year Of Blogging Here

I’ve been on the A*F*F/Pazzion site, on and off, since 12/2103 and blogging since January 2015. Here are some (not all) assorted things I have learned, experienced and posted about in that year.

Some things I learned from blogging here:
- The more different we say others are the more same we are.
- Men and women probably lie on their profiles etc. equally. One difference may be in what they lie about.
- There is a lot of antisocial stuff going on for a place that is supposed to be a “social network”.
- FWB has more meanings than I could have imagined.
- Saying you’re good at something is bad. Saying you’re “vanilla” is effectively a death sentence.
- “No drama” means ‘I have tons of drama’. This applies to vanilla “dating” sites too, maybe more so.
- Women want guys to just “be who you really are” and looks don’t matter that much. But don’t have a beard and/or hair and don’t be “vanilla”.
- Paying to be a member here isn’t much different than being a non-paying member.

My year sex-wise here:
I met a woman here "ST" and we had “fun” (in & out) for about 3 months, then she didn’t like one of my posts and went silent. But she kept viewing my profile and I said “hi” each time. A month later she said “I got my panties in a bunch” and went silent again. WTF

There was another woman and we had some “fun” together, after a month or so she went silent. A few weeks later, she said I wasn’t interested in her – I told her I was and she went silent again. WTF

A third woman contacted me via IM, she started the conversation with “wanna play”. We did, knowing, going into it, it would be a one-night thing – and it was.

Other Stuff:
- Now that I can’t find the software for my camera I get asked for dick, and other, pics. Really, WTF
- WTF should be a word.
- Subject to a few exceptions . . . If you don’t get a local woman’s phone number within a couple days (a week max) of contact here you probably won’t end up meeting. If you don’t meet her within a week or so (2 weeks max) of getting her phone number you probably won’t end up meeting.

Things I blogged about:
In my years on this planet I have learned at least one thing. There are “good” and “bad” aspects of most things that happen. Here are a few of mine for 2015.

Good: An ex-g/f “MG” came to me when her b/f “verbally and emotionally abused” her.
Bad: Within 3 months of that she married him. WTF

Good: Dude (my lil cat buddy) was in my life – Heeeerrres Dude a picture
Bad: He was in pain and had to be put to sleep. He was only 6 years old and did not deserve to be gone so soon. I miss my little buddy a lot.

Good: My friend Donald was in my life – we had some fun times.
Bad: He couldn’t kick his alcohol habit and died from it – Alcohol amp Final Lap

Good: My ex-Kath was around to help get me through an unexpected hospital stay and with Dude and Donald’s passing.
There are no negatives with her.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.

BrownEyedBBW 55F

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1/24/2016 9:24 pm

rates of deception are the same no matter what the site, about 80%.
Wow, just to be clear 80% of people lie and 90% of that is about something stuff?

My age is off because I don’t want ID info from any site available to be hacked, I won’t give job/career/income for the same reason. My is height right since it is average.

The word “relationship” describes a lot of different kind of situations. Good info thanks for sharing.

Despite what people might think, incidents off serious deception are really pretty small.What they measured were lies that people told specifically to enhance their online identities for dating/introduction sites. So it's the woman who lops 5 or 7 years off of her age and covers her greys or the guy who says he's 6 feet but is really only 5'10".

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