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A Few Site Notes and Questions  

redrockrascal 65M
8438 posts
12/14/2015 1:09 pm
A Few Site Notes and Questions


1) My slightly loony buddy here JAFO has told his readers the “credit” card processor for the site(s) is now in Britain and does not accept US based prepaid cards [post 3738364] . So my question is: Will a/the British based card processor accept other prepaid/gift cards? Or maybe a European or British based ppd cards? Or . . . are there other work arounds?

2) Has anyone else noticed that the numbers of messages you can see in your ‘message center’ are limited, until you delete some? If you click on “Load Earlier Messages” link it does nothing, it seems dead now. Before ‘the change’ that wasn’t a thing. Is this part of the Standard member email thing or . . ?

3) Has anyone noticed that messages that are placed in your ‘private blog/mail boxes’ don’t show up for hours? Most responses show up fairly quickly but the one’s that go into my private “For Your Eyes Only” take hours and sometimes overnight for me to see.

4) An ”Ambassador” from my state sent me (a Standard member) an email the other day. If the ‘Ambassador Program’ is geared toward getting Standard members to pay why do the “Ambassadors” send email to Standard members who cannot read them anyway? Oh yeah, to rope in dumb ass people. This is the second one in a month and third in the last few months.

5) I also stated on one of JAFO’s posts that the “Quoted Me” page has been loading at “usual” speed now – after weeks of not loading quickly. It seems to be fluctuating from working as usual to loading very slowly.

6) BTW this place is a friggin’ gold mine for me to make smart-ass remarks and other twisted observances. It sucks that certain bloggers I have interacted with have scaled back or left altogether.

7) The site does do things right sometimes. They took down a post where a member with less then a significant level of integrity had posted hijacked pics of another member. Credit where credit is due.

8 ) If you want a lot of people to easily read your writings how about posting them in a font size that is easy for most people to read. On my posts I use #3, it’s not hard to do.

9) A question about making responses to people who have posted to your blog was asked. I found a little while ago that if you use the same message (for instance saying “Thank You”) multiple times when “quoting/responding” it will not be accepted into the system. If you change the message a bit, like “Thank You (name)” it will be. Not sure why this is.

10) People often ask about the various “glitches” (generally slow loading of pages, pics getting lost, IM issues, denied posts, etc. etc.) that happen on the site(s). Given the way things have changed around here (email and IM restrictions) I believe they are in a financial “bind”. So it is possible they can’t afford to do upkeep, or upgrade soft and hard ware, or hire or allow time for their employees to do those things.

When these discussions come up I usually ask this question: Is there another “sex”/dating/communicating site with blogs? And add to that where you can communicate for free? No one has ever named one – feel free to name one for me.

Oh . . . and just to tweek a certain blogger (a.k.a. IT) who has asked that the blogs be “cleaned up for the holidays” . . . fuck, piss, dick, pussy, cock, screw, anal, jerk off, butt plug. Hummm . . . I think the last 3 describe IT.


When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/16/2015 4:10 pm

    Quoting joisygirl:

    SORRY, I FORGOT, RESIZED JUST FOR YOU!

    1 Darn shame, don't know what to say
    2 It's there still, somewhere, if you search for a phrase in an old email, it will come up, but you can't really load it or go back to that point in time, you can read part of it. Pisses me off, there were things I wanted to keep or still read, but dust in the wind now.
    3 yup, even inbox is slow to receive messages, makes actually connecting with another warm body a bit difficult. I wrote to Kzoo while he was online, got tired of waiting for a response and went to bed, in the morning he sent a message and said he didn't get my message for hours.
    4 Who's really the dumb ass here.
    5 Yup, and no one has viewed me either, as if...
    6 It's just not a whole lotta fun anymore. But I do love your smart ass twisted ways.
    7 good on them, now they've a lot of catching up to do on that front
    8 I do try and remember
    number 9. duly noted, number 9. duly noted, number 9. duly noted , I mean, I got it.
    10 fuck, piss, dick, pussy, cock, screw, anal, jerk off, butt plug, what the fuck? But blogs about those things are a lotta the fun, a.k.a. joy, ain't this the season for glad tidings, comfort and Joy!
# 6. I do love your smart-ass twisted ways. They shall remain so

# 9. thank you 9. fine 9. good 9. yeah I got it already . . . sheesh.

# 10 Yes, I felt comfortable and joyful sayin what I said.


When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/16/2015 4:02 pm

    Quoting  :

Isn’t the effect of the card change the same either way it is explained?

On older messages my experience at this point is: If I click on one of the people who can communicate with me via the “message center” email I can see their messages. But if I scroll back to older messages, even ones from this year, I can only see so many until I get to the “Load Earlier Messages” link. That “link” is not working so no earlier messages, which are there, won’t show as they used to do. But, if I delete some of the newer messages some of the older ones will become visible.

My slow private message posts came from both, people in the states and overseas.


When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/16/2015 4:01 pm

    Quoting LiveLifeDoU:
    I am new to reading, responding to and writing blogs....so I don't have a history to compare to....there are only a few bloggers that I regularly look forward to reading what they write. I hope bloggers that good that are being quiet or who have left, decide to start blogging again.

    When posting messages in the 'for your eyes only' blogs, it sometimes does take up to 24 hours for the messages to show up. Not so with other blogs.

    Keep up the smart assiness. We all need some of that in our lives
I agree some good bloggers have left or slowed their output. I will keep flashing my smart assiness.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
12/16/2015 6:23 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    So maybe it is a Standards thing hummm . . .
I was still "Gold" when the problems started.


redrockrascal replies on 12/16/2015 4:11 pm:
Oh . . . hummm

LiveLifeDoU 69F  
2199 posts
12/15/2015 4:55 pm

I am new to reading, responding to and writing blogs....so I don't have a history to compare to....there are only a few bloggers that I regularly look forward to reading what they write. I hope bloggers that good that are being quiet or who have left, decide to start blogging again.

When posting messages in the 'for your eyes only' blogs, it sometimes does take up to 24 hours for the messages to show up. Not so with other blogs.

Keep up the smart assiness. We all need some of that in our lives


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/15/2015 12:49 pm

    Quoting  :

Can’t disagree there. I think like many things there are highs and lows.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/15/2015 12:46 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes there are inconsistencies. Punch can mean a couple different things depending on the context and where you typed it here it wasn't denied.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/14/2015 8:25 pm

    Quoting tresennui:
    BS is not just here. I had purchased a membership for a vanilla dating site for my daugher. She wasn't happy I did that...but that's another story. It was a great deal for 6 months. I didn't tell her to turn off autorenewal because the account number on my VISA debit card had changed so I figured they couldn't put the charge through because I didn't update the account number...well they could. Apparently, if you have a contract, these memberships are considered contracts, they can have an agreement with VISA to put the charge through to your new number without notifying you first.

    I appealed the charge with my bank and it was denied. BTW the other site doesn't even let you know who is standard or who is a paying member. At least here you know if you email someone if they can or cannot respond or even read your email or profile.
Tres, that is interesting about the contractual aspect and VISA thing you mentioned. Yet another reason to try to use a “refillable” card on questionable sites. Which other site is it; it would be good for us to know about their secrecy.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/14/2015 8:22 pm

    Quoting  :

For “all the problems” etc this still is better than any alternatives I’m aware of, since there really aren’t any far as I know. What is “all around less enjoyable” to you?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/14/2015 8:20 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    I was all set to simply agree with the points you made, and mention that we've discussed them before, such as: where else can we blog the way we blog and interact here? That's really the nut of the issue for me. This HAS been a great site for social interaction, and I miss it when I can't participate. Put me down as one of the "complainers" then, because as much as I like the site, if I can't use it due to dysfunctionality, what use is it?
    And we've already exhausted that topic too- it's surely dysfunctional because they're broke, and they're likely to stay broke because they're clearly incapable of selling SnoCones in hell, let alone selling the prospect of sex to horny males.

    And as for IT, fuck it and the horse that rode in on it.
IMO, it isn’t the complains (which are legit) it is how people express it (in your case I enjoy them) and if their position is based in fact as yours are.

It doesn’t sound like there are any other sites like this one that has blogs. I, in part, don’t pay because of the glitches. But stay for the blogs and an off chance of . . . "getting laid".

“fuck it and the horse that rode in on it” always protecting the goats ain’t ya?


When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/14/2015 7:24 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Yes, you're right in saying that a number of once very active bloggers have either left or are waiting for the final straw
It's really a bummer

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/14/2015 7:21 pm

    Quoting missthee:
    I've been having problems with the earlier messages loading, too. for over a week now.
So maybe it is a Standards thing hummm . . .

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/14/2015 7:19 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh I’m sure they made it sound like the right thing to do and it would benefit you and the newbies. That’s how good marketing scams work. You’re a good and . . . sassy person GiGi.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
12/14/2015 5:09 pm

I've been having problems with the earlier messages loading, too. for over a week now.


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
12/14/2015 4:13 pm

BS is not just here. I had purchased a membership for a vanilla dating site for my daugher. She wasn't happy I did that...but that's another story. It was a great deal for 6 months. I didn't tell her to turn off autorenewal because the account number on my VISA debit card had changed so I figured they couldn't put the charge through because I didn't update the account number...well they could. Apparently, if you have a contract, these memberships are considered contracts, they can have an agreement with VISA to put the charge through to your new number without notifying you first.

I appealed the charge with my bank and it was denied. BTW the other site doesn't even let you know who is standard or who is a paying member. At least here you know if you email someone if they can or cannot respond or even read your email or profile.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
12/14/2015 3:40 pm

You can use a prepaid card. One of my friend from Germany was having troubles doing it and he got me to do it for him ..It is great you can get something for your points but you have to give up information about yourself to the site before this can happen. Ambassador program is a waste of time.. Some great points here Red you are so right! hugsssssssssss V I just added a few of my own.

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
12/14/2015 3:25 pm

Yes, you're right in saying that a number of once very active bloggers have either left or are waiting for the final straw


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
12/14/2015 2:55 pm

I was all set to simply agree with the points you made, and mention that we've discussed them before, such as: where else can we blog the way we blog and interact here? That's really the nut of the issue for me. This HAS been a great site for social interaction, and I miss it when I can't participate. Put me down as one of the "complainers" then, because as much as I like the site, if I can't use it due to dysfunctionality, what use is it?
And we've already exhausted that topic too- it's surely dysfunctional because they're broke, and they're likely to stay broke because they're clearly incapable of selling SnoCones in hell, let alone selling the prospect of sex to horny males.

And as for IT, fuck it and the horse that rode in on it.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/14/2015 2:49 pm

    Quoting spankandsquirt20:
    Sigh. A lot of my comments lthe last few days seem to have been denied also for various reasons. And. Wasn't even rude.

    About the messages center...yes, I have over 300 messages on there that I can't access, it says click here to load but nuttin happens. Mind you they are probably mostly one liners with dick pics anyways, but still.
Have any of your comments been just emoticons? I think they have things set (it is an software program far as I know) to require words in posts and responses - no idea why.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
12/14/2015 2:46 pm

I don't want to"come across"as a fully engorged penis"butt"
I think you forgot "anal prolapse fisting".It's this very sort
of language that makes a sex site almost unconsciousable.
I don't know how many times I see the words like glort and
splurt in posts and profiles that make want to hurl.

Thank you for mentioning this subject!

Using more than all the road!


redrockrascal replies on 12/15/2015 12:42 pm:
You’re welcome

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/14/2015 2:45 pm

    Quoting  :

It does seem to be pretty obvious IMO.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/14/2015 2:44 pm

    Quoting GhostofH:
    My new pet peeve today was; Your comment was denied due to........ hatred, bias, I forget exactly what it says. What did I say/post. Just this. Yes, just a smiley/grinning emoticon, and ABSOLUTELY no other words, pics, etc. and somehow this is 'hatred'. I didn't even have the energy to rant or deal with it. Seems the 'police' should at least open the comment and READ it before banning it. Grrrr......
I’ve had that happen too. I think they have things set (it is an software program far as I know) to require words in posts and responses - no idea why. The reply is just a “catch all” auto thing too. I doubt any person actually reads the posts unless directed to it in some way. Abd Ghost . . . I can’t imagine you at a loss for words.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


spankandsquirt20 45F
10597 posts
12/14/2015 2:44 pm

Sigh. A lot of my comments lthe last few days seem to have been denied also for various reasons. And. Wasn't even rude.

About the messages center...yes, I have over 300 messages on there that I can't access, it says click here to load but nuttin happens. Mind you they are probably mostly one liners with dick pics anyways, but still.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/14/2015 2:42 pm

You just want to give me a 'brain job'

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


mamacita38dd 45F
62894 posts
12/14/2015 2:31 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    You just want me for my big brain; you should use me for my body.
Mmmmmmmm! Brains!!! Lol

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