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Am I Sappy Ole Sex Y’all: The 13th Virtual Symposium
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Am I Sappy Ole Sex Y’all: The 13th Virtual Symposium I was a young innocent little boy when I first started blogging here. . . . . Whaaaaat? You don’t believe me? . . . OK fine, I did know some things. FWB was Folks With Boners. TV was what you watched when you didn’t have a date. BDSM meant Big Dogs Spank Monkeys (I’m not really into that kind of thing). That said I was ignorant (not stupid) of the term Sapiosexual. So I looked it up on the inter/web/nets, because we’re all smart and we know everything on the inter/web/nets is true. Like other terms used here I found several “definitions” for this term. Well that’s just great, so it is like other terms that get flailed about here – there does not seem to be one single definition of the term. Just like FWB or NSA. Fortunately there is a common theme to the sapiosexual definitions. One definition for Sapiosexual according to Urban Dictionary is: “A person who finds intelligence the most sexually attractive feature”. Another definition read: “A person sexually attracted to intelligence or the human mind”. NOTE: The second definition leaves out the word “most”. Both definitions are similar but different, which raises questions but not awareness. Is a man not sapiosexual if he appreciates and is attracted to the physical attributes of a woman? Where is the line drawn? Who draws it? Is she cute? What’s her phone number? . . . Oh . . . yeah . . . how smart is she? I’ve digressed . . . Does being sapiosexual mean I ignore a woman’s looks? OK, lets be real here . . . HELL no I won’t be doing that! Why, you ask? Men are visually stimulated/oriented. I have heard it is part of the male DNA; it is possibly part of our biological survival instincts. We rely on seeing things around us to be aware of things that could hurt us, to protect – to survive. To find things, especially animal protein to eat, we hunt and catch it, using sight as the primary hunting sense – to survive. In the sexual sense, men see women who we are biologically attracted to, in part for our species to reproduce – to survive . . . and “get off”. Personally, I’ve always looked at a woman as a “whole package” as it were. A woman’s attitude, her intelligence and her physical attributes are all part of my attraction. Intelligence also plays a part in her attitude. It effects what her sense of humor may be like too, and since I am a smart ass the woman needs to be smart to get me. So, what if a woman I meet was as intelligent as Einstein and looks like Einstein too? Will I talk to her? Sure it would probably be interesting to say the least. Would I be a friend with her . . . possibly. Would I be sexually attracted to her? Most likely not, in fact I can safely say, “ain’t no way . . . no how” I’ll be “doing” her. Does this exclude me from being sapiosexual? Lets delve further into me. I am male; I have the stick and balls (currently a sad shade of blue) to prove it. I have a hard time dealing with stupidity and smart women are way more interesting in the long run than dumb ones so you could say I’m a sap for sapiosexuals . . . or not. Also, there is the age-old wisdom, which states, “You can't fix stupid”. This is attributed to, as far as I know, a comedian named Ron White. If you haven’t checked out Ron White I suggest you do, he doesn’t BS as he tells very funny stories, drinks and smokes cigars on stage. But I’ve digressed . . . again. All this talk of intelligence reminds me of one of my favorite movie lines: “What did you expect? "Welcome, sonny"? "Make yourself at home"? "Marry my "? You've got to remember that these are just simple farmers. These are people of the land. The common clay of the new West. You know... morons.” – Gene Wilder (Blazing Saddles). So from this we learn that ignorance can be funny when it is the object of a joke. What does that have to do with sapiosexuality. Probably nothing but I really like that line. Knowing all those things the question still is . . . am I sapiosexual y’all? Maybe I’m semi-sapio-sexual or SSS. Oh this is just friggin great! ! I just created ANOTHER term to be batted about on adult “dating” sites. So what does this all mean for me and my situation here? Does being semi-sapio-sexual going to change the color of my balls? I still have no friggin idea . . . so I’m feelin kind of dumb right now. For more intelligent and sexual discussions on Sapiosexuality feel free to slake you intellectual thirst by reading the other Symposium participant's offerings Participants In The Thirteenth Virtual Symposium Sapiosexuality Intersection Of Smarts And Sex When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself. |
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Am reading through last year's symposium; very much enjoyed your entry, and just wanted to say so. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Am reading through last year's symposium; very much enjoyed your entry, and just wanted to say so.
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Well done, and well reasoned treatise! If nothing else, you may have attracted the sapiosexuals to you... But I would add another dimension to your comments: Manifested intelligence can create physical desire for a person one might not have been at first glance attracted to: Manifested stupidity can quell it in a person one might otherwise have been physically interested in. This is a good, chewy, thought-provoking post. One request: Would you put a link to the list of other contributors? Some of your readers may not know about 'em... and should. Thank you, again, for being part of the virtual symposium! Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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Thank you Jules. We certainly don’t go out with just one part of a person so why evaluate them on just one part? When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Thank you Calypso. You’re right whom or what decides the level of intelligence required of the person you are attracted to make a person sapiosexual? When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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All males need visual stimulation...we are wired that way but women are not wired that way...they need words, foreplay, and having their mind engaged (it releases oxytocin) and then they are ready for fucking!! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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I'm not sure I could have sex with some woman that sounded like Einstein and Looked like him, too, either. However, I don't think I could have sex with Einstein because he was intelligent in one area to an extreme but not so much in other areas. good post and made me think, is that a new kink of mine? Kitkat  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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No that ain't all - send pics and I'll describe further  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Whaaaat? You had this all figured out please post up about it - I wanna know, sort of. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I'm not sure I could have sex with some woman that sounded like Einstein and Looked like him, too, either. However, I don't think I could have sex with Einstein because he was intelligent in one area to an extreme but not so much in other areas. good post and made me think, is that a new kink of mine? Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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MOST, yes a good distinction. I ain’t sceerd o nuttin. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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It's the same with me. Just as I thought I had a good knowledge of most of the terms being banded about on this site, along came another one. Just remember that behind every successful man is a surprised woman  
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Excellent I think you got that right here.. hugssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Interesting read.  You may be a sapiomantic!  It drove me sapio-looneyWhen the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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This term sapiosexual was created just to confuse folks. It has succeeded beyond any expectation. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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This term sapiosexual was created just to confuse folks. It has succeeded beyond any expectation.
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Interesting read. You may be a sapiomantic!
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It's the entire package that does it for me although I have been known to relax my physical appearance standards when a man has an intelligent mind and knows how to use it well. Seduction (the mental part) has lead to some of my best sexual encounters.
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We have the luxury of being able to overthink everything, rascal. I like your honesty about what attracts you. Thinking is not overrated but it can be overdone, to no useful purpose. I think we have to take love where we find it. To do otherwise would not BE wise. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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We have the luxury of being able to overthink everything, rascal. I like your honesty about what attracts you. Thinking is not overrated but it can be overdone, to no useful purpose. I think we have to take love where we find it. To do otherwise would not BE wise. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Oh no my liddle golumpki don't be blue. Boris you iz no dumbsky. You iz no sapski either. Well maybe just liddle bit dumsky, but dat iz how Natasha likes 'em. Natasha iz mizzing you dahlinc. Haf varm vatruska vaitinc for Boris, no need be bluesky, vill put Boris bek in da penk in no time. Vat Natasha’s hot hot penk flowink Volga When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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