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Question for women - tools for fools  

redrockrascal 65M
8438 posts
1/18/2015 8:10 am
Question for women - tools for fools


Do you really care, like or dislike if a guy on this site; hot lists, fans, or flirts you, or are these tools for fools that you effectively ignore?

Also interested in knowing why either way.

Thank you,


When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/18/2015 5:34 pm

I thank all of you.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


sweetlips_03 45F
1271 posts
1/18/2015 9:18 am

I tend to hotlist people because I think their photo is hot. It doesn't not mean that I am attracted to that person, or that their profile attracts me. I see it as appreciating someone's self expression.
Flirt is just sense less, if you want to flirt with someone; you should send them an email. And the top fan is cute.
I myself feel flattered. But I don't really see what it can do for a person, unless they write the girl or guy and express their interest.
Most of my fans are guys that keep in contact with me. So it's not like I have a bunch of strangers fawning over me. But I'll admit, I like their persistence to be #1.

Sweet Kisses
sweetlips_03


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
1/18/2015 8:59 am

I don't bother even checking these days. I know that a lot of views are just people hovering over a picture on their home page for too long. Sometimes I wonder why a youngster would even bother hotlisting me....but it's not that important.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


umaykissmesoftly 67F  
344 posts
1/18/2015 8:37 am

I don't bother checking who views, flirts or hot lists me or becomes a fan. If they can't bother to send a e-mail, I don't want to be bothered with them. I think these items are indirect ways of showing some sort of interest for people who may be to shy to initiate an e-mail or just don't know what to write.


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