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Top Sexual Fantasies for Men...
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Top Sexual Fantasies for Men... According to sexperts, and I truly wonder if they really are, men's sexual fantasies range from the conventional to the edgy. Around this site many just seem normal. The nature of sexual fantasies is that they push the boundaries a bit, letting you imagine situations that occur infrequently, if at all, and exploring the depths of your and my desires. Fantasies are fantasies because they are not reality — they are often taboo or rub up against social barriers. Men tend to have core thematic fantasies that they can return to again and then there are fantasies that men would enjoy in the way they surf TV, exploring what catches their eye or their mood Putting Your Partner in Charge Perhaps one of the simplest of men's sexual fantasies is just having your sexual partner directing the sex script for the night. Whether it is a full-on dominatrix or simply a woman who knows what she wants and how to get it, many men find the thrill of a confident and sexual woman to be very appealing, It can be tiresome to always feel like the pursuer. Feeling pursued can be a very sexy change, and it can also be a huge ego boost. Oral Sex The most common men's sexual fantasies are about your partners doing things they wouldn't ordinarily do. This one was really common: like the wife doing oral sex if she didn't do oral sex! Best news? No expensive props required. Threesomes Question? What could be better than one woman? Two is always the answer. At least, that's what the heterosexual men seem to believe. Chances are good that dreaming about a threesome (or, as it's called in French, ménage à trois) is on the list of most men's sexual desires. However, if you are able to find a universal answer for the next question,how do I get my lover to participate in a threesome...we can retire rich! Anal Sex Coming. or should I say cum(ing) in third among men's sexual fantasies is having anal sex with a partner who doesn't usually (or ever) do it. How do I get my girlfriend to enjoy anal sex? is another question that comes up often among men everywhere! Why is it that men fantasize about what they aren't getting? Dozens of sex manuals, videos and even websites can help partners who want to live out this fantasy and do so in a fun, safe and pleasurable way. Watching others As my personal favorite, me like I am sure Many other men are titillated by watching women pleasure other women and sometime other men too! Voyeurism in general is near the top of the list of men's sexual fantasies. It can be combined with other fantasies, including watching your significant other with another sexual partner or masturbating to orgasm, or even discovering other people in flagrante delicto. It seems that many modern sexual fantasies come from watching porn, but the drawback to that is often isolation. Sadly too many Men are experiencing their fantasies by watching them instead of sharing them or role playing. That works out ..more for me and you! Submission Many men enjoy sexual fantasies in which the man is more of a passive player. A lot of men enjoy being submissive, It runs contrary to the way they experience their lives outside of the bedroom. They enjoy being tied up, teased, tantalized, and spanked even some extend this theme with the fantasy in which a man's anus is penetrated by his lover, male or female. That’s a bit much yet it happens more often than naught! Exhibitionism Performing sexually in a public setting is also among men's sexual fantasies. Fantasies about having sex in public and being watched or discovered can fuel men's sexual desires. This is one area in which men and their partners should be careful about acting out fantasies. Sex and nudity in public places can lead to serious legal consequences. Videotaping sex play for later<b> viewing </font></b>could provide the same kind of titillation with less risk. Domination For some men, the fantasy of having total power over their partner in a sexual situation can be quite arousing. These types of men's sexual fantasies might also include bondage and sadomasochistic elements that blend pain with sexual arousal. These sexual desires might also merge into fantasies of role playing, exhibitionism, and voyeurism, depending on how you script them. Fetishes Men's sexual fantasies often include fetishes. A fetish can involve any number of body parts, such as feet, or objects, such as your lover's underwear. Often, men's sexual fantasies are wrapped up in things that typically aren't included in their sex play. Fantasy is the perfect opportunity to safely experiment with how these fetishes could be included in your lovemaking. Role Play For some, a strong men's sexual fantasy involves dressing up and playing out new roles and story lines. Heterosexual men might favor the character parts of strong men encountering attractive women.  "Only good girls keep diaries. Bad girls don’t have time.” |
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