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Before we started Swinging
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Before we started Swinging Hi all. K (Male) and D (Female) We started swinging just over 2 years ago and still thoroughly enjoy it. Before we started we had talked about swinging a lot and D was always unsure as to how I would react etc. etc. While we lived in the UK for a while I did try the Dogging scene which by the way works differently to here in Australia. I loved it but D said she was happy for me to go but it was definitely not for her. We did try going to some of the Adult clubs etc over there but again D was way to nervous and we never quite got into a situation where things just clicked and worked. My endowment is pretty small and yes it is small lol not quite making the 3" mark. I knew once D tried a decent sized guy she would really enjoy herself. It was not until D started working in Aged Care that things started changing for her. To make it a short story, she listened to many aged people saying they wished they had done,,,,, None said Swinging but you get the drift. So one day when I said shall we she said Yes. Wow. So opened up a Couples account on a number of different swinging sites and took some pics and started looking for some couples and singles to get into the game with. There were plenty of offers but reading profiles we found many were either fake or just simply not the type of people we were looking for. Each and every one of us have likes and dislikes. This will sound very bad but we aren't exactly thin and great looking. But we were looking for Mr and Mrs Barbie. A bit of a letdown lol. Nearly gave up and give it all a miss. After discussing it we decided we would give certain things a try and I can now say we have come up with our type of people we are looking for. Unfortunately this doesn't include everyone and anyone lol. Our profile describes what we are now looking for and it's what we are happy with. So although we are looking for swinging couples, we have found (for us) that often it can be difficult to find a couple where all 4 are well suited together. We have found 1 couple that we are very comfortable with, not only sexually but as good friends also. They moved to another part of the Country now but we still keep in contact. So although we are still looking for Couples to have as good friends with benefits type of arrangement, we are looking for particular types of people within the couples. No easy way to put it but we are not into BBW or BBM. Slim to Average with a little extra padding is great but Large is just not for us. And please note we are not being rude it's just the way it is. So saying that we have found that it's easier to find Single guys. But as the husband half here has a cock and a tongue LOL when we look for guys, we are looking for guys that are Fit, Healthy, Clean and Well Endowed. We never play with people whom we have not connected with and become good friends. So taking some time to chat online and then cam to cam to verify who each other is and then onto meeting for a drink and or meal a few times is very important to us. LOL We have been called "Time Wasters" by a few Couples and Singles, who just want to arrange a time and get right into the fucking. Well that's not us and very happy to make you feel good about yourselves by calling us time wasters LOL. But that's us and we are comfortable with that. Two things that keeps coming up in conversations etc in this lifestyle. Bi Males and Married Men. Bi Males. Sorry, nothing against Bi men but the Male Bisexual thing is definitely not for us. Also, and I know this can be very controversial, but looking at all the STD statistics, Bi and Gay men are the most likely to pass on STD's. Married Men. As a couple we are looking for no Strings with other men. Although we do have single guy friends we do believe a married man has more to lose by getting an attachment and or any STD's. So tend to favour the Married guys over the Single ones. Thanks for reading K&D Happy Wife Happy Life  |
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