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On some str8 bullshit  

Nolalanie 49F  
13 posts
5/4/2015 9:33 pm
On some str8 bullshit

So on my profile it states that anyone approaching me for sex must be ready to share their most recent test results. I state that I am an HIV testing and education counselor. I expect to practice safer sex and don't just take people on their word that they are DD free. So this guy approaches me via message to hook up. We exchange a few messages and I ask for his test results. He says he has them and last got tested 3 months ago. I'm good with that as I reccomend to my patients that they get tested every 90 days. I suggested that if he wanted, we could test together and fool around while we wait for the results. That led to the mother of freakouts. This dude proceeded to spend the next couple hours asking me questions about the test, saying I had access to infected blood and even went so far as accusing me of infecting people with HIV. Now inbetween his rants and raves, I said more than five to seven times that I just wanted proof that he was actually DD free so if he had his recent paperwork I was good with that. He continued to insult me and my profession by accusing me of wanting to experiment on him. AS IF! Now it was obvious he had major trust issues especially since he still never seemed to read the several times I said I was good with him showing me his results. When I said that to him, I got more questions about the cost of the tests, type of test, hours at my clinic and he stated he would go and get tested at my clinic. The whole time I am like, "what happened to those results from 3 months ago u said u had?" Was his freak out a smoke screen for the fact that he was full of total bullshit when he said he had been tested three months ago? Was his freak out because he was hiding something? I have nothing to hide, I offered him my most recent results in exchange for his and got met with more accusations and questions. I calmly answered all his questions, wished him a good night and blocked his ass from my page. WTF dudes? Don't come at me with the bullshit. Don't say you have recent results when you don't. I am all about keeping us both safe. If I am willing to test myself infront of your ass, what would be suspect about that. I am showing you I have nothing to hide. I am willing to show up with two HIV tests (or as many as needed for as many as will be involved) and open the test infront of you, take the test first then test you. We can both see the results. This ain't no game people. Atlanta is #1 in the Nation for new cases of HIV, #1 in the nation for syphilis infections, #3 for Chlyamidia and #5 for gonoreah infections. I don't play about my vagina. I keep it clean and stay healthy. If you want to get this, then you better be willing to get tested. We can even go to the clinic together and get tested by a neutral party. Don't say you are DD free and when I call your bluff not be willing or able to prove it. That just makes you look like the asshole you are and make me glad I dodged that<b> bullet.</font></b>

ManticoreEye 52M
616 posts
5/4/2015 9:37 pm

 Nice dodge. That's some scary shit.


Nolalanie replies on 5/6/2015 6:30 am:
Yeah, it was a good dodge, I just believe that if u say u r disease free be willing to prove it. Not a hard thing 2 do. All u have 2 do is take ur ass 2 the clinic/doctor's office and get tested. They give u the paper work, how hard is it to bring that with u and show the other person. That way we both know we are safe and it makes the sex way better because ur not wondering if the condom breaks or things get wilder than expected if ur gonna be burning days later. I always play safe no matter what, but shit happens and if it does, I like to know what I'm n 4.

Nolalanie replies on 12/25/2015 10:27 pm:
Oh, follow up on that story, ol dude contacted me later apologizing and actually allowing me to test his ass. After all that he still wanted this ass so you know he chased it down and did whatever necessary to get it. MEN, can't live with them, can't test them and can't kill them.

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