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Yesterday was a good day... Yesterday was a good day... As most of you know, I don't write to compete for standings or points... I write, because I have something to say... not always erotic, sometimes funny, sometimes sad... but, I think it is interesting reading... My blogs are not for the 'slam bam thank you ma 'ams' out there... they are for people who can and want to read... those that please and want to please usually enjoy them the most... I suppose there are those that still wonder why they read me... and, yet they do... so, it's all good... why the good day??? as you know I've been on the site since June of 2014... didn't know what to expect, and met a woman here, early on... that relationship lasted 9 months and then it was no more... things happen... well, during that time, I discovered blogging... Initially, I looked at many blogs and started reading and posting responses... some thought I was a stalker, others didn't have time to respond more than a 'how sweet' or 'cute stuff' or other 'trifles'... These hurried comments told me that they had too great of a following or too many 'pretenders' or, they just wrote to write... and, maybe that is the best way to be... However, I write to what I consider to be a small audience, and I've responded to 99% of the responders.... those that are insensitive or have another agenda, I don't bother... but, like I've stated I try to respond to people and let them know that I appreciate the time that it took for them to not only read, but, to add value in the form of constructive criticism or thoughts that my blog may have provoked... It is with this in mind that one cool thing happened... One of the ladies that reads me is a woman of few words... she is a thinker, but, she expresses herself in the least amount of words or posts blogs that are short, sweet and simple... Until, this week... this week, I witnessed a metamorphosis of sorts as she posted two blogs with song lyrics... the first blog contained one set of song lyrics... and the second one, she had a story where she embedded three different songs that 'came to her' that day... now, this is difficult because she let the songs choose the story... that is very hard to do... normally, how I write my blogs, is that I see the story, determine what messages I want to convey... how I want my lovers to feel and, voila, I've got the foundation for my blog... then, I research the songs that could go along with the story... that works for me... well, just seeing her write these blogs made me happy... I hope that I influenced that, because I liked what I read... the second blog moved me with the plotline and the related lyrics... so, it put a smile on my face... "Where do we go nobody knows? Don't ever say you're on your way down... when God gave you style and gave you grace And put a smile upon your face..." -- Coldplay - "God put a smile upon your face"... I hope she reads this blog... the second thing that happened is a result of my dilemma at work... as some of you will recall, and many of you provided ample comments when I said that there were three women at work that had approached me for lunch or dinner or something else... I was concerned, because I don't want to get anything started... It's not a good idea to start relationships with co-workers as you have to deal with the aftermath of 'what happens when it doesn't work out'... I did go out with one of the women, and all she did was talk about her boyfriend... so, that was a bust for me... but, maybe that is a good thing... then, this week the second lady took me out to lunch, and it was pretty good, because she paid... I mean, are you kidding me, most of you claim that you will go Dutch, however, I've not read that any of you will pay for your man's meal... interesting... but, then, this is the cyberworld... and, I am talking about the real world... so, the second lunch was also a bust... even though she paid... this lady wanted advice... and, man oh man, am I a sucker for giving advice... I couldn't believe the words that were coming out of my mouth... and, since we went to Bennyhana's I told them that it was her birthday, so they took a picture of us and sang happy birthday to her, and she was laughing and smiling... now, why was it a good thing? "I wait on you Forever Any day Hand and foot Your world Is my world... 'Cause baby You smile I smile..." -- Justin Bieber "You smile" So, this co-worker had just gotten a divorce, and she doesn't 'see' me... she says I am like a father figure... I can't even believe a woman would say that to me... but, be that as it may... I listened to her story and gave her advice... she is like a free spirit and has found a possible 'sameone'... or, her eyes are deceiving her... or, she just needs to find herself... or a million other things... but, I listened, and when she asked me what she should do, I told her to go ahead and fuck his brains out... no, I didn't say that... I told her to be true to her emotions, but, understand that people have needs and her feeling of true love may not be what this new man is thinking... so, yes, I told her to follow her heart, but to also be cautious... I also... what a fool am I ... I told her that to watch the movie: 'eat, pray, love'... because of the things she was telling me, and because (although I hate chick flicks, but, if I didn't, then, this chick flick might say something to me....) the movie takes a woman thru her life and she does find herself... well, my friend, went and bought the book and she thanked me, because she could relate to the main character... she is supposed to watch the movie this weekend... let's see what happens... I hope she finds what she is looking for... the next thing that happened... happened yesterday... the third lady at work gave me her phone number... and I didn't even ask... now, I know a bunch of you are saying----- "NOOOO" ----- "SHE IS TOO YOUNG" ------- "DON'T DO IT EASY"... but, hear me out... you people are so quick to judge and criticize.... and, I say that in a nice, kind, gentle, easy going way... This is the young melonlicious woman who is way too young for this naïve soul... but, a week ago, when she left the office, I told her to stay out of trouble, and of course, she told me for the second time, that she had absolutely nothing planned, and I felt her eyes blink, and blink and blink... and, I got an erection... Ok, so I didn't get an erection, and maybe, she didn't blink, but, wishful thinking is ok for me... plus, I'm writing this and you all are still reading... I thought of this song, and still do, as I am writing this blog... "She's only 18 Don't like the Rolling Stones She took a short cut To being fully grown..." -- Red Hot Chili Peppers "She's only 18" Well, that's what I was thinking... and, after I told her to stay out of trouble, I told her if she did get into trouble, she could call me... and, I wrote my phone number on a piece of paper and gave it to her... now, since we work together, she could have my cell number my role allows my business stakeholders to call me... so, I wasn't being too forward... but, she took my number and said goodbye and left... then, this past Monday, she said she stayed out of trouble and went to visit her parents... so, I thought, well, that's the end of that, and since HR didn't call me for some kind of harassment, that I was in the clear, and all was good... Until, she went to leave the office yesterday, she says to me... try to stay out of trouble, but, if you do get into trouble call me... yes, she said that... OMG... I said rather sheepishly, that I didn't have her phone number... she got a post it note and wrote her number down... and, said have a great weekend... OMG... now, that is a good day... thank you very much... Boom, that just happened... and, so my little pretties, I will leave you with that... I hope to add another installment to my blog with my far away lover who spent two nights with me in Dallas last December... any thoughts??? thanks for reading... Anyway, To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!  |
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I enjoy reading blogs and I always try to give an honest comment, some want it and some don't, but it is the best part of A F F, I can say your by far have been great read, so keep blogging, and do be careful with the young girl lolol
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Hi BiggLala. Thanks for visiting and commenting on my blog. As you know, many don't provide me with the feedback on my blogs and/or songs... some do, but others just read and maybe explore the sounds... Ok... so now you've added to a great weekend... I love to hear that I've inspired someone to post something... Oh my... that Medina song "You and I" (Deadmau5 Remix) is the one I still listen to... It is special... Please don't forget I put your song recommendation "Here" by Alessia Cara (Mickey Valen Remix) on one of my cds... as a matter of fact, I am listening to it now, as I post my response... thanks again for the lovely comments and for the music you have shared with me... have a great Saturday... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Hi Joy... Joy can take you further, if you let her... I don't know if all this 'vibe' stuff is just in my head... 'Cause that's how I'm looking at it, and the father figure thing, while it is a great song by George Michael, it is not the role I look to play with women... Oh, I am that role to my children... but, to women, I am a man... so, it will take some getting used to... As always, I thank you for your kind words... I'm just a simple man... have a great night out with the 'tribe'... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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I enjoy reading blogs and I always try to give an honest comment, some want it and some don't, but it is the best part of A F F, I can say your by far have been great read, so keep blogging, and do be careful with the young girl lolol Thanks for taking the time to read and post your comments on my blog. I always appreciate the 'honest' comments... I get some good, some bad... the comments let me know if I have hit a mark or missed it totally... and, with my style (others write like this too, so it is not just me) I try to write for a purpose and then pamper the senses with the lyrics and maybe, that reader will go and listen to the songs... Your comments have put a smile on my face today... thanks again... the young lady is not that young, she is 32... but, still young for me... have a great day! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Hi sweet0necter. thanks for your lovely comments. Yes, I am her cube mate (now the focus seems to be on only one of the things that made yesterday a good day...) and flirting is nice... She can put a stop to it... and, yes, you are so right... she may just be toying with me, as "there are others that come by that flower and try to inspire...." But, as another blogger wrote yesterday, where there is a will, there is a way... And, I am an eternal optimist with 'real' women, that see me, that, take the time for me... that, invest in me... when she speaks to people she always focuses on them... I notice this while I watch her as she does her job... She is a quality assurance analyst and interacts with several people in our IT organization... So, I acknowledge the politeness of this young vixen... And, I feel fortunate being placed in this cubicle arrangement... maybe, I'll just maintain my distance.. maybe, i'll let her experience the youthful challenges that she deserves with someone with like experiences... It is a thought... but, I did find it quite stimulating, when she handed me her phone number... and, then she said good bye... no questions, no inhibitions, no indecision.... just 'good bye'... Now, I could get into trouble, or fake a flat tire, or a broken finger nail... I don't know... I could think of something... or, just have an easy going weekend... so much to do, so little time... thanks, again for your comments... loved that last blog! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Your blog is awesome filled with love and passion and some good music too hugssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Your blog is awesome filled with love and passion and some good music too hugssssssss V thanks for the nice comments. Hope you get a chance to listen to those songs, if you've not already had the chance. Have a great Saturday night! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Hi Sexy_SandraD. Thanks for reading and commenting on my blog. I'll always take luck as long as it is of the good variety. Have a great Saturday!!! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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It says a lot for your character and 'easy going' way that women are so comfortable with you. We all have to find and do what's comfortable for ourselves. Innocent flirting at work is one thing, exchanging phone numbers for non-business related reasons is another. Tread carefully and decide for yourself if and what kind of 'trouble' you are prepared to get into. 
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Glad to hear that things are going well for you I'll echo what some of the others have said and remind you to tread carefully in the work environment; think with the right head. Take care.
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It says a lot for your character and 'easy going' way that women are so comfortable with you. We all have to find and do what's comfortable for ourselves. Innocent flirting at work is one thing, exchanging phone numbers for non-business related reasons is another. Tread carefully and decide for yourself if and what kind of 'trouble' you are prepared to get into. thanks for reading and commenting on my blog today. You do have a point... It seems to be so much easier here in blogland, where the odds of meeting a sameone, are astronomically high... but, safe...consequences behind a mask are tempered with the safety of never meeting... Flirting is one thing... and, yes, phone number exchange is another... What surprised me the most was that she gave me her number... and, to be honest, there are many that are vying for her attention... and, she seems to wait for me to not be busy to engage in conversation... she recently started working out at the gym in our building... I've seen her a couple of times, but, my schedule is busy so I can't go when she goes... but, she asked me about what she was doing the other day, and I asked her what her objectives were... Like many, she wants to lose weight... but, I don't know why, because she fills out a bra with those melonlicious breasts as if they were just waiting for the right man to extricate them from their temporary confinement and show them the easy going ways of this gentle lover... so, she told me, she had lost 5 lbs and I said she looked great... I didn't see that she should lose any more, but, that she could tone those muscles by increasing the calories she is burning per session on the elliptical.... she wanted to move to the treadmill and I told her, that she ran the risk of impact injuries to her shins, knees, hips... then, I advised her to ratchet her workout up to 125 calories to see how that would do... She listens to me, because she started out at a 50 calorie workout, which wasn't doing anything for her... she wasn't breaking a sweat, and the one time we were side by side on the machines, I almost lost control as her breasts were bouncing to a rhythm that aroused my entire body... so, the next day about three weeks ago, she asked me what I thought she was doing wrong... Now, honestly, she doesn't need to lose weight... for my needs, she is perfect... but, I don't know why women think they need to weigh their high school weight when they've had a child... things change inside you... so, I told her, that if she wanted to lose weight that she should go to 100 calorie work out on the elliptical... and, that's when she lost the 5 lbs... so, she is receptive to my advice... I don't want to get into trouble... and, I truly think she is too young for me (32). But, you never know what life has in store for you if you have blinders on... I will tread carefully... thanks again, for the lovely comments... have a great sunday!!! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Glad to hear that things are going well for you I'll echo what some of the others have said and remind you to tread carefully in the work environment; think with the right head. Take care. thanks for the visit, and the comments... I will heed the advice... I have not gone crazy... probably, nothing is going to come of this... but, you have to admit, that it is interesting... this is not a boring work environment that I am in... and, I'm not just a guy... and, for the most part, I am not initiating the activities... just sayin'... they are coming around to me... normally, I'm just minding my own business... and, then they engage in conversation... and, then they ask me questions, and before you know it, we're going to lunch... Let's see what happens next week... thanks again!!! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Es un loco mundo esto del ciberespacio, los mensajes escritos con una intención, no siempre son entendidos por el receptor con el mismo sentido ....... pero como bien explicas en tus 3 experiencias con mujeres del trabajo, ni en la vida real es tan fácil entendernos ........ aún hablando el mismo idioma, no es fácil conseguir el "entendimiento", pero lo que si alcanzamos, si pensamos un poco es a entendernos un poco mejor nosotros mismos. Bicos mil Para encontrar el verdadero viaje sólo hace falta mirar con otros ojos.{=}Isla380
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Es un loco mundo esto del ciberespacio, los mensajes escritos con una intención, no siempre son entendidos por el receptor con el mismo sentido ....... pero como bien explicas en tus 3 experiencias con mujeres del trabajo, ni en la vida real es tan fácil entendernos ........ aún hablando el mismo idioma, no es fácil conseguir el "entendimiento", pero lo que si alcanzamos, si pensamos un poco es a entendernos un poco mejor nosotros mismos. Bicos mil Thank you for your thoughtful comments. Yes, it is a crazy cyber space world we live in where the words that we pen don't often get interpreted worth the intent they were meant to convey. I was chatting with another blogger about that this week. I had sent a post to a blogger that I read often and I debated for quite awhile as to how to phrase it prior to sending. It was an innocent post, but it could have been written a number of ways. Speaking the words would have resolved the confusion, but, typing it left her imagining all sorts of ways to take it. It took another correspondence to resolve it. But, it does point out the pitfalls that we run into with this safe form of communicating... Thanks for understanding the three scenarios that i wrote about involving the three female co-workers. All women are different and special to me. The ones that choose to talk to me and invest time are hard to find. So many things have to align. I truly seek to understand before I open my mouth. It makes it easier to send the appropriate message once you know what the intent was to begin with. I take my time. Those that are in a hurry or wanting to have that quick response typically, are not for me. Even though you write to me in a very eloquent Spanish, I can respond to you in the language that I am more comfortable communicating and you can do the same for me. I like that because it allows us to see each other... Thanks again... Bicos mil!!! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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