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Manipulation  

nastynancy22 61F
32 posts
4/6/2015 4:52 pm
Manipulation

I want to rant for a few minutes. I need to get some things off my chest so to speak. I am not the kind of girl to just drop her panties without feeling comfortable. Feeling like I have to drop them to keep people around that I thought I was developing a friendship with. Then I guess I really didn't need to have the experience of playing with them. I think there needs to be a little education that the high pressure manipulation I have experienced on this sight doesn't get the intended results.

It however causes those of us that may have had a highly manipulative past to put up walls and run the other direction. I now have an amazing partner that would never allow others to take advantage of me. I am a strong independent gal that will buck when feeling like she is being manipulated. So guys please remember patience and respect will get you wild experiences, not high pressure manipulation tactics.
Nastynancy22
redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
4/6/2015 5:18 pm

 Problem is that the guys who act like jerks also get a lot of attention on this site.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Nuke_N_Naughty 52M/53F

4/6/2015 5:30 pm
    Quoting Ashaman424:
    oh yea ... i get the "walls" treatment all the time as i am a single man and for some reason all the single men are thought to be by definition pushy...overbearing....rude... or trying to horn in on a marriage to "rescue" someone ... or deceptive ... or worse manipulative... i am dead certain there are some couples who are this way too and even single women (i've run into a few of those in my younger days) .... the PEOPLE on here who are assholes make make it harder for the "low pressure no drama" people (y'know the "nice" ones") who only want to have fun and make friends that last for ever... we men have a stigma on here because of those types
You are very right "Ashaman424" and I experienced this quite a bit when I was a single guy here. However, I can say from my personal experience that if you continue to be polite, patient, and respectful, you will find some very special people here. I know I sure did.
Dennis (Idahonuke)
To read about myongoing adventures and journey into the lifestyle:
[blog Idahonuke]


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
4/6/2015 5:34 pm

 I think you meant to say they get all the attention.I'm starting to believe it is just an excuse.I wish they would ju!st say they're not interested!
Using more than all the road!


Nuke_N_Naughty 52M/53F

4/6/2015 5:52 pm

 On top of all that, how some people think that they are somehow entitled to a woman giving herself up just because they think they have put in enough time waiting and deserve it is beyond me. Definitely NOT the right way to go with this amazing woman.
Dennis (Idahonuke)
To read about myongoing adventures and journey into the lifestyle:
[blog Idahonuke]


nastynancy22 replies on 4/6/2015 6:10 pm:
thank you baby, as always you have my back.

nastynancy22 61F
29 posts
4/17/2015 7:03 am

 astiffmale I don't judge by pictures I am totally referring to the high pressure comments like"If you don't meet me then we are no longer going to communicate" that is what i am referring to. also I understand about the pictures as mine have also received awful hurtful things and my partner removes those remarks. I know I am not a beautiful woman I am however kind and fun loving. big girls deserve to have fun and be respected as well.
Nastynancy22


ooooold 75M
210 posts
6/4/2015 9:43 pm
    Quoting nastynancy22:
    astiffmale I don't judge by pictures I am totally referring to the high pressure comments like"If you don't meet me then we are no longer going to communicate" that is what i am referring to. also I understand about the pictures as mine have also received awful hurtful things and my partner removes those remarks. I know I am not a beautiful woman I am however kind and fun loving. big girls deserve to have fun and be respected as well.
Nancy,
Don't sell your self short because you are a Beautiful women !!
Randy{=}


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