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How to Get the Most Out of Your AFF Membership
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How to Get the Most Out of Your AFF Membership From a Woman's Perspecitve: How to Get What You Want Out of Senior Sizzle I've been on Senior Sizzle on and off for over 10 years. I've had a profile, then cancelled it, then had a profile, then cancelled it. Senior Sizzle has changed a lot since the early days. A lot is better. A lot of the same problems still exist. We all, men and women, have problems with flakes, weirdos and the occasional psycho on the site. Here's how to make the most of it, have fun, and hopefully find the person or people you are looking for.... 1. Be Perfectly Clear About What You Want Okay, so maybe it's going to make you sound bitchy. Who cares? You're hear looking for your preferences, not someone else's. I told someone that I frequently get heckled for my "deal breaker" list. His response was funny. He said "Yeah, because telling a woman that her preferences are too demanding or fucked up is a sure way to turn her on!" LOL. Exactly. 2. For God's Sake be Honest About Your Relationship Status I know this is a hard one because there are a lot of people here looking for side action. Great! Believe me, there's enough of you that you could all get together and just be honest and find plenty of playmates who will play regardless of your relationship status. But don't go wasting my over by lying to me. That's not cool. 3. If You Say You Want to Play in Person - Mean It. It is not polite, nor cool, nor anything else good to set a date to meet someone and not show up. If you get cold feet, at least have the decency to communicate that you aren't going to show up. 4. Be Honest About What You Look Like I realize this is less of an issue if you only play online. But, if you plan on playing in person, be perfectly honest about what you look like, how tall you are, your build and how much you weigh. Trust me, you don't really need to lie. Someone amazing will be interested in you just the way you are. 5. Learn how to control your privacy. Senior Sizzle has gotten a lot better about this. Take time to figure out your privacy settings. Learn how to block members you're not interested in. It cuts down on the "noise" factor. 6. Contribute to the Community Part of what makes any online community work is the participation of its members. If you are getting something out of the site, give someone something. Give them a flirt, or same someone form having a total as their #1 fan. Use your points to lift up other members. Everyone, I don't care how hot they are, likes a compliment. 7. Post Face and Body Pictures I know this is a sensitive area because some people don't want face pics on here, but really? You'll put a picture of your absolute most personal privates, but not your face? Think about that for a minute...lol Okay, and guys, please, stop with the penises. Are you aware that penis pictures don't turn women on (at least not most women). Wondering why you keep getting gay guys responding to you? It's because you put up ten pictures of your penis! If you want women to respond, post a chest picture, even better a face picture AND a chest picture...trust me on this one. 8. Want a woman to respond to you on chat? Tell her she's beautiful. 9. Want a guy to respond to you on chat...be selective and say hi and ask what he's doing. 10. Last But Not Least, Be Classy When You aren't Interested Not everything was meant to be. If you aren't interested in someone, be polite and communicate that in a nice way. It can be done with some tact, although maybe my next post should be on how to be tactful??? |
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Great tips. Hadn't thought about the "face and chest"pic. Funny though that although I've no penis pic and say I'm interested in woman only I still get men viewing my cam, hot listing and messaging me.
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well written and informative Be safe, relax and just have fun!
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I have too adamantly disagr......Nice post.just, a really, nice post! Using more than all the road!
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Personally I tend to avoid profiles that won't have a face picture. Sorry, not buying the "I am a professional and don't want it to be known" schtick. Presumably, if you're posting on here in the first place, you're comfortable with what you're doing. If you're not, go hang out on Craigslist.
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