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Insecurties  

HOTTASSMILF2014 51F  
27 posts
11/3/2014 6:41 pm
Insecurties
Could insecurities with a loved one or self prevent both from experiencing the euphoric, enmeshing, mind-altering orgasm simultaneously? Even if one is unaware of these insecurities?
954BKS 53M
22 posts
11/3/2014 7:04 pm

 Insecurities are hard enough to deal with as it is. But to have to try overcome someones else can be really tough. Insecurities can be over come if both parties except and understand their own as well their partners. I think that is were complete no holding back type communication comes in.


normalisoktoo 54M

11/3/2014 7:17 pm

 Insecurities should ALWAYS be put under the observation lamp. Seems to be the only way they can be confirmed or denied. My $0.02.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
11/3/2014 7:44 pm

 Yea...coupled with poor communication and the lack of interest to understand and deal with it, usually the killer in relationships. Or fun.


biggeew 64M
29 posts
12/6/2014 8:34 pm

 Yes, relationships require constant nurturing to grow. If both parties do this the insecurities should be minimal. Good communication is paramount. Selflessness makes it easier to do. The rewards are well worth it. Mind-blowing orgasms to name one. Thanks.


satrojanfan 55M  
9 posts
12/10/2014 6:52 pm

 The level of communication has to be there. So often people are afraid to express their wants and desires that it cause undue friction in the relationship.

You have to know who you are and what you want before you can begin to understand your partner.


valvilla 63M
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15 posts
1/14/2017 7:40 am

 Everyone is different. You need to communicate and understand what gets the other going. Otherwise, you crash and burn


stevemly55 69M
17 posts
1/27/2017 10:25 pm

 Communication is the Key to All Relationships Be it Good or Bad! If you can't talk things over or if your just using Sex to keep you close, It's going to Explode! Just my Opinion!!!


stormmonkey3 56M

11/4/2017 5:53 pm

 absolutely spot on,
i am glad to read you like different races.
can we have a chat on here some time please love.


ffrankn805 53M/37F  
174 posts
4/21/2018 8:02 am

 i disagree. once you get to a certain point while playing, the pleasure and sexual interaction push the insecurities away and the mind bending orgasms take over. but as it subsides, the insecurities are allowed back to the surface, and then the problem is still there... and needs to be dealt with through communicating about what's causing the feelings.


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