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Anyone Real Out There?  

verybisexualguy 79M  
32 posts
11/19/2014 2:26 pm
Anyone Real Out There?


I feel that I've come to the realization that 95 percent of people on this site are strictly voyeurs and masturbation maniacs. I also realize that I'm looking for something very specific and likely my have my standards too high. I only chat with men since I'm searching for an ongoing bisexual experience. But does any one else get frustrated when the dance goes on with one person for hours, days or even weeks and then the individual drops out of sight. It's obvious that some men will chat for an hour or more and seem to express real interest, then what? My honest feeling is that most men use the process to heighten the sexual excitement, masturbate, cum and then gone. Not even a kiss good night.

rm_shamus1076 75M
4 posts
11/28/2014 5:43 pm

I just sent you a msg on your post. I hope to hear from you very soon. Your profile description of who and what your are seriously enticed me to respond. I hope I am not disappointed.


ffrankn805 53M/37F  
174 posts
5/3/2015 6:33 am

you're correct. Most use sites like this as they once did with "dirty" magazines. Only this is hotter, because these are real people with real desires and fanatasies. Every login is a new exciting hot story...


altlooking 69M
322 posts
7/26/2016 6:32 am

I've been here off and on since about 2007. It was waaay better site back then with much less fakers, BS'ers and voyeurs.

My opinion is that there's a lot of ppl here who haven't come to terms with their sexuality and sexual desires. Like for instance a woman who wants regular sex partners, but still has those nagging ideas that "good girls don't do such things". Or a cpl that wants MFM or just can't bring themselves to admit they want sex outside their marriage as conventional society says your marriage vows means you forsake all others (meaning you don't have sex with anyone else). A lot of these mores like the previous and even the ones about women having multiple partners are leftovers from days long past where birth control wasn't available, and it was more important to society to be certain who was fathering whom.

So all this means a lot of voyeurs, and folks who want to talk and chat a lot, but really not seal the deal.


verybisexualguy 79M  
21 posts
1/24/2017 12:44 pm

Sorry altlooking for the very slow response to your comments. I should pay more attention to messages I start. You're right on but I'm surprised with there seems to be much more openness and acceptance of life, even married life, with multiple partners. My wife and I strongly believe that monogamy is overrated and that religion and the actual institution of marriage are the principle reasons for the increase in divorces. But I guess my point in this blog is that most people aren't willing to admit it or act on it.


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