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A piece of advice
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A piece of advice Being involved in a relationship for about 3 months with the most passionate and exquisite woman, I want to give a piece of advice to all those women who ignores mails, chat requests, flirts and any other form of communication with a male trying to get your attention. It started with an e-mail being answered politely by her, apologizing for not answering before, because she didn't log in for long into the site, and telling me that she needed to review my profile again before making a decision. Not being contacted by her I decided to mail her again after a couple of months. This time she sent me her private mail and we started to exchange mails in order to see if we had any common grounds to set a meeting. After two weeks we meet to get a visual of each other and had a long talk. This lead to a meeting of mutual physical body exploration in a secluded place, that was so satisfactory for both we decided to meet again for a full sexual encounter. I can say about this lover that she brings out of me a sexuality that has been hidden on me with out my awareness, and when told so, her answer was: its a mutual feeling. I emphasize this point because I've been told by many lovers how good I am in bed, but never reached the heights I'm experiencing now. Being both married we meet once a week, sometimes twice, and we chat almost daily. On our second meeting and before engaging in that physical exploration mentioned above, we talked about the points that guided us to decide to meet each other. She was so open as to tell me that on my profile and preferences written on it, she did found some common points, but not enough to start at all a connection, and that was the reason she didn't contacted me after our first mail exchange. What then caused her to contact me on my second attempt? I asked. She had read an article about online dating stating that a necessary step to take to meet that someone you wish for, is to broaden the circle of people you are ready to meet even if they don't exactly fit into your criteria or preferences. This wonderful relation its still ongoing with out any signs of fading away, on the contrary, every encounter is better than the last one. So lady's next time you ignore someone's mail or a chat request, take a moment to reflect, maybe you just lost the great lover you could ever meet. Aequat homnes cinis (Seneca) |
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WOW. I could not agree more. Like you, I am also in a committed relationship, but in my case I have total permission to play as we are in an open relationship. I love my girl to death, and am not going to fall in love with anyone else. I make this very clear in my profile. Yet, some women refuse to "think outside their box." The women who have met me are very happy they have done so. I know that women generally don't care to "share" their guy with anyone else, but hey c'mon....this is a SEX site and there are no guarantees you are going to find the man of your dreams on the first date. Women should be playing the field and enjoying themselves while they are looking for "Mr. Right." Meanwhile I am a "safe" place to be because I can give you great sex, but won't fuck with your heart. Yes, women need to cautious etc etc etc.....but OPEN YOUR MIND as this gentleman has pointed out. It could be the best move you have made in a long time. Nothing ventured nothing gained!
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Thanks for your comment. The answer is yes. Definitely you're right about being respectful as the proper way to approach a woman, on the other side all my mails where written with great respect and even so, not even a "No thanks, I'm not interested" response arrived. Aequat homnes cinis (Seneca)
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