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Is age an issue for you?
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Is age an issue for you? |
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If I am attracted and like someone, age isn't much of an issue. That said, I am a bit leery when young men send me a message stating that they are interested in, want to experience, or prefer 'an older woman'. It bothers me simply because I don't want to someone to be attracted to me *because* of my age. My age doesn't define me ...in fact, it doesn't tell you a hell of a lot about me at all. I am flattered when any man finds me attractive and I don't even mind when someone tells I look hot at 54 but I suspect that there are men out there who might see me as an easy target....believing that I would be so grateful for the attention of a younger man that I would just fall right into bed with them. Some older women might be ...but I'm not. I have met and dated men who were younger than me but generally, that happened because they had no clue what my age was when they showed interest. They just liked who I was. And that works the same way here for me....when a guy doesn't make my age the focus, he's more likely to have a shot.
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I seem to attract women a lot younger than I am, and I don't really know why, but I actually prefer them a little older. For some reason I'm now being chased by women from 18 to 29, and I've been letting them catch me, lol!
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We are a couple. Too us its all about how you act (maturity). Not so much the number that measures how long you have been in existence. Maturity comes trough different channels: work, life experiences or perhaps some time. Regardless, if your open-minded and are willing to absorb learnings from your surroundings.. You are probably more mature than the next person in line. Take care R&A
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Age isn't an issue with me. If there is a good connection, personality, positive sexual vibe and physical chemistry is more important to me than age. With that being said, the closer their age to my own usually makes for a quicker good connection.
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Age does matter. It's just that some won't admit it. I mean even I know it. Everyone has their preferences and age is just one of them. ~  ~
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I like women over the age of 18. Pics and blogs from women of all ages are great. I do find that many older women don't put up with BS. They speak their minds and tell you what they think. The younger women seem to let stupid things guys say just lay. Yes we men do and say stupid things.
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I've had older women when I was young, my ex was younger, and I've had younger and older since I divorced. It depends on the person and what you're going to do together. Just my .02
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i used to think only women about my own age would interest me but recently i think i have expanded my age range. i have met in person and chatted online with some women a whole lot younger, 28-35, who have interested me. they held my interest and we seemed to have both physical and a mental attraction.
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its just a number. its all about where there head is at. even then its still just a number.
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I am a woman and i am attracted to Black Single males from age 40 to 65. I am not into the young guys as most of them do not know how to treat a lady. or they cum way to fast LadyTeddieBear 
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age doesn't matter it only a number the way I see it if your attracted to someone why should the age make a different........
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If the attraction is there age is but a number. I've Been With Both Older women, My Age And younger..all want a good time and to know they are the only girl on your mind when they are with you
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I wouldn't consider someone the same age as my sons, or that of my dad, but what I do consider is that the man no matter what age he may be, must be responsible, take care of himself, and be as good a person as he can be. My lover now, is 4 years younger than me. The one before him was 5 years older, and before him 9 years older. I even had a playmate who was 13 years younger. But he acted it so didn't play anymore. It is a Journey…We all get there differently.
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It all depends on the person age should not be a factor in if two people want to be together for what ever reason!!!
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Well I don't think age is too much off a problem for me, I just don't know if I'm up for dating or hooking up with someone who's about 20 or so years older than me just yet. I guess it depends on the person maybe. Looking to experience my first time
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thanks for taking the time to respond ladies and gentlemen. The data is appreciated!
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2/20/2015 2:20 pm |
A only like women between the ages of 21 to 50
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