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Respecting The Ladies on This Site  

Oceana1969 58F  
206 posts
3/8/2015 6:15 pm
Respecting The Ladies on This Site


Today I watched a friend of mine in chat have her profile "twinned" and she was ridiculed and bullied in chat. This individual decided to bully her and impersonate her with her friends because of rejection and then out her to her friends.

After seeing this I received the following email and response. Outing someone may not be a good thing but at the same time this is an example of how we are treated and example of the emails we receive. I do hope this person reads this as I'm over disrespect. Read someone's profile act accordingly.

DirtyRidexxxx
A date with a strong 8
3/8/2015 7:45 pm

Me
A dick doesn't define a man. No thank you. Thank you for belittling me enough to think I'm so shallow to think an 8 inch dick would be enough for me. You under estimate women...GL
3/8/2015 8:31 pm

DirtyRidexxx
Thank you very much. Likes the feedback. An honest statement. Problem is... Ladies like your self are so uptight and bound by the thought of your vagina rules the world and can't take a joke for the life of your sour personality. Some people choose to be alone and some like you are alone because your a rotten bitter bitch.... Have a fine evening.

bisarahsmiles 34F
282 posts
3/8/2015 6:29 pm

The irony of your blog is that you could be reported for posting his username, while he gets away with calling you the B word.

Take a number or letter or two away from his username on this blog and then report him to the site. He'll at least think twice before abusing women on the site after they deactivate his account for a day or two.


Oceana1969 replies on 3/8/2015 6:46 pm:
Thank you for your suggestion and I did just that. Thank you for watching out for your sisterhood.

sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
3/8/2015 7:04 pm

There does seem to be a lot of that going on here.

I think way to many guys have bit into the Get Laid tonight slogan or routine, and have lost track of what this site exactly is, a social networking site.

sure people meet up, go on dates, etc.

but then there's no real reason for the actions of a few, who have had their little ego's bruised.


Oceana1969 replies on 3/8/2015 7:15 pm:
Thank you very much from a guys view that has respect and kindness. There are still good folk but I agree with you.

bisarahsmiles 34F
282 posts
3/8/2015 8:02 pm

You're welcome! And ignore n499's comments. He hates women and trolls the blogs all the time. Wise women block him from viewing their blogs


Oceana1969 replies on 3/8/2015 9:11 pm:
I read his blogs, blasting women and talking highly of men. Totally understand what you are saying. Thank you again for your support.

justpervin29 50M
2598 posts
3/9/2015 2:00 am

Sigh - seems to be there is a definate subset of folks with the following mind set.

I dont see what the big deal is, this is a sex sight its about sex you dont need manners i mean this is the internet nothing is really real until in person not like you have feelings or anything.

Wish they would learn - manners always matter - I would hazard a guess they don't pull this sh!t in real life because something like that would get a drink in the face or slap or something. Since there is no real negative consequences for their behavior they feel its ok. Not worth your time and effort. sorry you have to deal with it

Smile - you never know who may need one
justpervin29 - comments are most welcomed.


Oceana1969 replies on 3/9/2015 9:45 am:
Thank you my friend. HOw are you doing? You have understood how to treat a lady from the get go. How is your writing going? Give me a shout sometime.

normalisoktoo 54M

3/9/2015 11:40 am

Oceana,

I always get excited when I see a post from you. But THIS one did not excite me.

I wish I knew what part of the male chromosomes make us behave in that way. Perhaps we could find an antidote of sorts. At least an inhibitor!

You deserve better, and please don't fret over it.


Oceana1969 replies on 3/9/2015 2:53 pm:
Thank you!!! I haven't posted in a while but I shall start again HOw are you dear?

mainelyfun69 61M
126 posts
1/25/2016 5:56 am

Sorry hun, you deserve so much better!


Maineboy44 65M
45 posts
9/3/2019 5:27 am

true


Maineboy44 65M
45 posts
9/3/2019 5:28 am

I'd ignore him


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