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Cupid Settings  

Oceana1969 58F  
206 posts
8/21/2014 4:29 pm
Cupid Settings

I have my cupid settings as a single female looking for male species. This is exactly what I'm looking for on this site. Why is my "Member Activity" page filled with gay men and couples???? This is not my setting, not what I want to see or have any interest in.

Is anyone else having this problem? My "who's online" shows single men (mostly) but the activity is all stuff I could care to see.

Thank you.

justpervin29 50M
2598 posts
8/21/2014 4:33 pm

 ahhh its nothing but illogical lol yeah i think the more they fix things the more they end up break things lol
Smile - you never know who may need one
justpervin29 - comments are most welcomed.


Oceana1969 replies on 8/21/2014 4:37 pm:
You my dear need to put up your sexy blue eyes again...those deep penetrating, bedroom....Oh you know what I mean. Put your picture up, Pretty please..

Thank you for your quick response and I agree they keep breaking something else. Oy!!

MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
8/21/2014 5:01 pm

 I keep checking my cupid settings and all is correct but I am having the same issue as well. I just wanna puke when I see the gay men.


nd2hvfun 65F  
10021 posts
8/22/2014 1:14 am

 i just read a mans blog where he sent a complaint thru to xxxgayman c/o various i looked at his profile he is gay so the site just threw everyone regardless of who or what into the same profile pool...way to go Senior Sizzle
je ne regrette rien


MechanicalMe 63M
39 posts
9/11/2014 11:14 pm

 I don't think all the filters are applied equally for the different sections of the site.

For example, on my home page in the "Who's Online" section, the profiles shown fit my Cupid settings completely.

But in the Hottest [whatever] section, the ages and gender match but many of the profiles I click through to are of women only interested in other women or a race I'm not a member of etc. And, even though the filter list is displayed to the left of the profile thumbnails, changing the filter settings seems to accomplish nothing.

I don't know if actual thought was put in to how much one's settings apply to the different sections or if they just sort of organically set up filters based on what were available at the time the given section was first created.

Who knows. All I know is that it can be aggravating to some degree and definitely a waste of time much more so than it need be.


Oceana1969 58F  
442 posts
9/13/2014 7:57 pm

 Thank you all for your responses. Senior Sizzle should keep us on the sites we sign up for instead of throwing us to the wolves...but then again, I guess that's how they make it look like they have more members.


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