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No More Caution  

Oceana1969 58F  
206 posts
7/5/2014 9:54 am
No More Caution

Seems I can't get anywhere being an honest, truthful woman who has integrity and morals. The so called "good men" I meet seem to be not so good, waste time, really don't want any more than a quickie in the sack and the list goes on. Get jealous because they claim they want a monogamous relationship, but yet they are the ones that are having fun, too, busy, not enough time, too much work, and the endless list of excuses goes on as they bop one woman and move on to the next.

Men, you wonder why women get up-tight and post such messages to you or on their walls that seem like they are a bitch or have an ego. It's the same games we face all over the globe by the sounds of it. Respect for another human being has seemed to go down the drain and is replaced with how many pieces of ass someone can get. Since when did quantity over ride quality.

I guess I need to throw caution to the wind and start trying to see people I would never meet and leave the ones I would meet alone. I guess I"ll try the get trashed and gang bang on a date just so the guys think they have a hot woman on their arm. Cuz they really can't seem to realize when they have a good woman on their arm...They never seem happy and something is always missing.

jerr51 63M
2050 posts
7/5/2014 10:10 am

 Way to many men can only think with little head.They have no concept of quality over quantity


Oceana1969 replies on 7/28/2014 8:13 am:
Jerr, thank you for your comment. I have to agree with you. I have also told a few to think with the right head..still to no avail.

rm_Maxme2fun 65M
6 posts
7/5/2014 2:33 pm

 BELIEVE ME, I understand, been there


Oceana1969 replies on 7/28/2014 8:13 am:
Thank you MAX for your answer.

Oceana1969 replies on 7/28/2014 8:14 am:
and I hope it turns around for you because it takes too much pain ad anguish to keep getting the same results.

justpervin29 50M
2598 posts
7/5/2014 3:48 pm

 so sorry to hear you know you are incredible and any guy would be lucky to spend time with you in any context and those that cant see it are missing out and obviously not worthy of such a wonderful person and sweet sexy lady
Smile - you never know who may need one
justpervin29 - comments are most welcomed.


Oceana1969 replies on 7/28/2014 8:16 am:
JustPervin you are too sweet to me. My ego is't going to fit in this paper bag much longer I appreciate your comments and your kindness on a continual basis. Your humor is great and your honesty is wonderful. Thank you sweetie.

MechanicalMe 63M
39 posts
9/12/2014 12:05 am

 No, you don't need to throw caution to the wind but then again, I think you wrote that more out of exasperation than any other reason.

The way I look at 'it' is similar to how a company looks for a new employee.

Ask existing employees for a referral and you'll likely hit it in one.

Advertise locally, and the number of unacceptable applicants increase.

Advertise across a region and the washouts increase dramatically.

Advertise across the world and the loser flood gates are opened.

Consider the size of the potential "applicant" pool, take it in stride but NEVER lower your standards.

Unless doing so would include me.


Oceana1969 replies on 9/13/2014 8:04 pm:
Thank you Mechanical. Yes, I did write that out of exasperation. It was being said tongue and cheek. I'm proud of my morals and integrity and realize I need to get a thicker skin. Thank you for writing on my blogs. Much appreciate

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