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Blogs > Smokeblower > Blowing Smoke

Beyond the orgasm  

Smokeblower 67M
140 posts
7/26/2014 9:37 am
Beyond the orgasm

Practicing Tantra has opened up channels of energy and joy that I never knew existed. Divine Union is when the lover meets the beloved, the earth meets the sky, the yin meets the yang. It is the dance of God and Goddess within our heart and soul.


Some definitions: Tantra is a form of Hindu practice much modified in the west. I prefer to refer to what we do here as “neo-tantra” because it’s really unique to the new age movement. Yoni is the sanskrit word for vagina, symbol of divine procreative energy. Lingam is the word for penis, meaning “wand of light." Chakras are the 7 energy centers of the body moving up the spine from the base to the crown of the head. Yab-yum is the position depicted in the photo, with<b> lingam </font></b>in yoni, and all chakras aligned.


I rarely ejaculate during sex, mostly only when I want to. But I feel the flow of energy between me and my lover's heart, hands, third eye, and of course lips and yoni. When I'm inside a lover with whom I'm deeply connected I go to a place where I'm not sure where I end and she begins. I feel an amazing warmth that turns to a fire that does not consume start from my<b> lingam </font></b>and flow up my spine, circling back into my lover through my heart and through our lips and breath. It's particularly strong when we are in yab-yum. We don't even need to move, just breathe... And I don't need to be fully hard - another happy benefit of having a large<b> lingam </font></b>- to stay connected and even have amazing, shuddering, full body orgasms that can last minutes. That kind of orgasm doesn't leave you drained - it just takes you higher. As revealed in ancient scriptures of the world, the truth is that nothing is actually separate – this is only an illusion. Everything has always been and will always be in Divine Union. It is just a matter of awakening to this truth. Even though we are immersed in the material world and its energy, at any moment we can tune into that place where we can feel our oneness with all.

Feeling Divine Union is a profound ecstasy. It’s every cell of your being vibrating in harmony with the cells of all other beings and all of creation. In experiencing divine union in oneself, there is no more ‘I’.

hiddenmythology 44M
9643 posts
7/26/2014 9:57 am

 "Practicing Tantra has opened up channels of energy and joy that I never knew existed. Divine Union is when the lover meets the beloved, the earth meets the sky, the yin meets the yang. It is the dance of God and Goddess within our heart and soul. "

I REALLY like that line!!! Great post
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Smokeblower replies on 7/26/2014 10:13 am:
Thank you, Hidden!

Smokeblower 67M
610 posts
7/26/2014 10:11 am

 Wow, Senior Sizzle deleted all the photos. Frustrating. I'd cleared out all the file names and watermarks too. Sorry folks, you're just going to have to imagine the images. Alex Grey's art depicts the energy flow really well. And the yab-yum position has the man sitting, legs out or cross-legged, with the woman sitting in front of him, so that the fronts of your bodies are touching and spines are aligned.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/26/2014 10:51 am

 I've never tried tantric sex. thanks to your post, I know about it now.


Smokeblower replies on 7/26/2014 2:30 pm:
Thank you! There are tantric practitioners and schools everywhere. I know an excellent Tantric coach in London if you would like a recommendation. No one of whom I'm aware in Nottingham...

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
7/26/2014 1:24 pm

 Very interesting topic.. I only tried it once and loved it.. hugssssssssssss V

Some connection you will have with this..
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Smokeblower replies on 7/26/2014 2:33 pm:
Yes! Of course, both people have to feel it, be open to it, and have some experience for it to really soar. But the first time I felt sexual energy was with a much younger lover. Neither of us knew of these practices, but we did a little of them naturally. We both asked "What was that?" as we felt the kundalini energy rise. Every time we made love it got stronger. And that was at a swinger's resort of all places!

Wishing you wonderful and deep connections, V, and big hugsssssss back!

demonicsexkitten 48F
10694 posts
7/27/2014 8:31 am

 Did you try reposting the pics? Sometimes they disappear but reposting they stick.


demonicsexkitten 48F
10694 posts
7/27/2014 9:03 am

 Yay! Pics are up I LOVE the last one.


Smokeblower replies on 7/27/2014 9:14 am:
Me too. And thank you for the advice. I have no idea what their programmers are thinking.

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