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The lost art of conversation, by Him
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You make a lot of good points in your blog post here. It's important to maintain good conversation, it shows intelligence, imagination, and the interest in who you're talking to, and trying to impress.......   .
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What has happened to the art of conversation? .... What has happened to "Common sense"!!? A mans brain goes blank when he wants sex.. .and he sure isn't rifling through a sex site in search of deep conversations. .... Hey let's not beat around the bush' you wanna or not? .... Perfectly reasonable question. Do you or don't you. Don't be stupid. Yes or no.... simple as that. But what was once, OH I'd love to fuck that. Has been replaced with Oh I'd love to learn about them to see if we have more in common. ... If he is saying , "Oh I'd love to learn about you" or wanting to know what you have in common... he's gay. Do a lot of people ruin the attraction by talking? .... No, just the men. The more he yammers on the more likely she will change her mind, and not do him. Is that why we don't want to say much before we get to do the deed? ... Yes. Plus, he isn't on a sex site for a long conversation with a woman. Or is it that we have so little in common that we fear failure of the deed ever happening if we blurt out stuff we think about or wish to discuss? .... The only thing you need to concern yourself with , is "Pussy", "Penis", "Do I , or , Don't I". ........Don't make it a match game. Too many times stories are told where the only words said after the deed are...... Hey that was fun, but I gotta go. .... Yes, but that is okay. Don't join these sites if your little heart is going to be broken because your pussy didn't keep his interest to be your boyfriend. IS that the hit it and run aspect, ... Yes, if you want "Strings" , go to a site the advertises "Strings". Does the attraction run so wild that we think that if the sex is good enough then we can invest the time to learn about the person? ... Maybe not. Might be awesome sex, but still could be a one time shot. But sincerely...... the art of the conversation. That exchange of words that excite the mind and the soul. .... You are on the wrong kind of dating site. That level of flirting that seems only possible in movies, what has happened to it? .... This is a site men come to for sex. Not to develop a bond with the woman. Men don't go to those whore houses in Nevada or Amsterdam or Germany to find a conversation and a bond....No. They go there for sex. Cuz you never know where a conversation can lead.......... it just may be the secret to being much more than a hit it and quit it kinda time .....BUT we want a "Hit-it-and-quit-it"...... that's why we're on this kind of site, and not eharmony.
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You make a lot of good points in your blog post here. It's important to maintain good conversation, it shows intelligence, imagination, and the interest in who you're talking to, and trying to impress....... .
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What has happened to the art of conversation? .... What has happened to "Common sense"!!? A mans brain goes blank when he wants sex.. .and he sure isn't rifling through a sex site in search of deep conversations. .... Hey let's not beat around the bush' you wanna or not? .... Perfectly reasonable question. Do you or don't you. Don't be stupid. Yes or no.... simple as that. But what was once, OH I'd love to fuck that. Has been replaced with Oh I'd love to learn about them to see if we have more in common. ... If he is saying , "Oh I'd love to learn about you" or wanting to know what you have in common... he's gay. Do a lot of people ruin the attraction by talking? .... No, just the men. The more he yammers on the more likely she will change her mind, and not do him. Is that why we don't want to say much before we get to do the deed? ... Yes. Plus, he isn't on a sex site for a long conversation with a woman. Or is it that we have so little in common that we fear failure of the deed ever happening if we blurt out stuff we think about or wish to discuss? .... The only thing you need to concern yourself with , is "Pussy", "Penis", "Do I , or , Don't I". ........Don't make it a match game. Too many times stories are told where the only words said after the deed are...... Hey that was fun, but I gotta go. .... Yes, but that is okay. Don't join these sites if your little heart is going to be broken because your pussy didn't keep his interest to be your boyfriend. IS that the hit it and run aspect, ... Yes, if you want "Strings" , go to a site the advertises "Strings". Does the attraction run so wild that we think that if the sex is good enough then we can invest the time to learn about the person? ... Maybe not. Might be awesome sex, but still could be a one time shot. But sincerely...... the art of the conversation. That exchange of words that excite the mind and the soul. .... You are on the wrong kind of dating site. That level of flirting that seems only possible in movies, what has happened to it? .... This is a site men come to for sex. Not to develop a bond with the woman. Men don't go to those whore houses in Nevada or Amsterdam or Germany to find a conversation and a bond....No. They go there for sex. Cuz you never know where a conversation can lead.......... it just may be the secret to being much more than a hit it and quit it kinda time .....BUT we want a "Hit-it-and-quit-it"...... that's why we're on this kind of site, and not eharmony. but firstly, many other sites discourage relationships that contradict the mono vanilla society norms. secondly we are all people with different views different wants and needs, if we enjoy a conversation and you don't we definitely won't be a match and would prefer that as an adult you simply continue your search for those that seek what you also want.... we can skip the rude replies that some have left us with. again, thank you for taking the time and sharing.
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5/28/2018 2:36 pm |
It takes two to tango. Nearly every time I talk to someone on here, the responses I get are just a couple of words and/or an emoji and I'm just like, "What do you expect me to do with this?" Other times, it just becomes clear we share no common interests. Something that I think would help is if no one posted pictures of themselves. I don't post a pic for a reason, and I'm not giving it away just because I messaged you a hello. I've had most conversations die at that point.
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thank you for commenting and sharing your views.... but firstly, many other sites discourage relationships that contradict the mono vanilla society norms. secondly we are all people with different views different wants and needs, if we enjoy a conversation and you don't we definitely won't be a match and would prefer that as an adult you simply continue your search for those that seek what you also want.... we can skip the rude replies that some have left us with. again, thank you for taking the time and sharing. secondly we are all people with different views different wants and needs, . .... That's right, so if you want "Conversation", then common sense should tell you to go to those sites that would more likely have people looking for conversation. ...Anyway, you can converse when you meet in person. So if they say, "You're hot, come meet me in the cafe on the corner of..... at 4pm".... that's reasonable...... then you can converse in person. if we enjoy a conversation and you don't we definitely won't be a match .... Not a good idea to have a conversation online.. They send you a text saying , "Hey, you wanna or not".... you look at their profile , make a determination, and if you "Wanna"... you tell them , "First a meeting for about a half hour at the cafe on Barston street, at 4". .... then you converse. .... plus you'll get a better read on the person , in person.
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It takes two to tango. Nearly every time I talk to someone on here, the responses I get are just a couple of words and/or an emoji and I'm just like, "What do you expect me to do with this?" Other times, it just becomes clear we share no common interests. Something that I think would help is if no one posted pictures of themselves. I don't post a pic for a reason, and I'm not giving it away just because I messaged you a hello. I've had most conversations die at that point.
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I like to have the conversation myself. I builds on the attraction and lays a foundation of respect. Even if it is a one time meeting. Because you never know if there will be a 2nd. or a 3rd. I also enjoy the conversation when meeting someone from an adult site. Mostly because it opens up the boundaries of what can be discussed. I enjoy the freedom to speak openly about sex that way. You can't do that with just anyone you happen to meet. I don't me in a demanding way, but an open and honest give and take discussion.
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but firstly, many other sites discourage relationships that contradict the mono vanilla society norms. ..... Not this site. Also your use of the word "Relationship" is vague... for most here the "Relationship" is likely to only be a one-time-thing. secondly we are all people with different views different wants and needs, . .... That's right, so if you want "Conversation", then common sense should tell you to go to those sites that would more likely have people looking for conversation. ...Anyway, you can converse when you meet in person. So if they say, "You're hot, come meet me in the cafe on the corner of..... at 4pm".... that's reasonable...... then you can converse in person. if we enjoy a conversation and you don't we definitely won't be a match .... Not a good idea to have a conversation online.. They send you a text saying , "Hey, you wanna or not".... you look at their profile , make a determination, and if you "Wanna"... you tell them , "First a meeting for about a half hour at the cafe on Barston street, at 4". .... then you converse. .... plus you'll get a better read on the person , in person. just don't feel like you've been singled out when you have more NOT's than wanna's
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I like to have the conversation myself. I builds on the attraction and lays a foundation of respect. Even if it is a one time meeting. Because you never know if there will be a 2nd. or a 3rd. I also enjoy the conversation when meeting someone from an adult site. Mostly because it opens up the boundaries of what can be discussed. I enjoy the freedom to speak openly about sex that way. You can't do that with just anyone you happen to meet. I don't me in a demanding way, but an open and honest give and take discussion.
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