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Blogs > jadesmith69 > I look better NAKED!

opportunity.....  

jadesmith69 55F
455 posts
7/4/2014 7:07 am

Last Read:
11/19/2014 7:18 am
opportunity.....

I have recently been pondering the subject of “what next”
for a great deal of my single life I have focused on the idea that I wish to be married and never really considered the reasons why. (it was just what I wanted) My Ideas and my needs are changing sufficiently that I am questioning that desire.
One day I go through as selfish as I can muster and think “wow, I love the freedom of calling all my own shots” and reason that I don't really need a husband thwarting my efforts to do what I want to when I want to.
The next day I get turned on sufficiently that I think “if I were married I would not have to think and plan to enjoy a needed orgasm” then I get out my toys if the hour is late or make a text if the opportunity is there.

Then I meet up with one of my friends that have made a success of the lifestyle and think “why can't I have it all”?
I have discussed with my friends the practicality of having more than one income in a household and the opportunity that affords the occupants.

Security vs total freedom
constant companionship vs<b> steamy </font></b>trysts
obligation and fulfillment vs selfishness and self indulgence.

I realize that everything requires time and compromise and one day it my hit me just what I want and need but for me, for now I am learning to enjoy my company. I am loving the freedom and opportunity I have built into my life. In the end I am sure I will make the right choice if and when a choice is presented but for now I am loving the freedom and fun of choosing for me alone.
Lets Create together. http://Senior Sizzle.com/blog/jadesmith69
we can fantasize forever.
J
BadBoy4Fun1965 59M
129 posts
7/4/2014 10:17 am

 Me time is a wonderful thing!!!! BadBoy


MovingOn001 68M
929 posts
11/18/2014 8:27 pm

 Remember the old saying. "Marriage is a great institution and look at the people who are in institutions."

Seriously though, there are things to be said about being married and there are things to be said about being single. I've been married twice, but I don't see me doing it a third time. If I meet the right woman, I will consider us living together, but I don't see a third marriage in my future as I enjoy my freedom too much.

Best of luck to you when it comes time to make this decision for real.


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