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"You don't get a second chance"!
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"You don't get a second chance"! Adam Sandler wrote a movie called "50 First dates". I could write a book called A million first dates, seem like I been on a million. I'll be a gentleman. we have a good time, laugh and I don't say nothing . After a day or so, I hear the same sing and dance routine. Drew, your a good man, I feel there's no connection and I wish you the best. I almost here it word for word. Is there a book out there, women have to end things, before it get started? I went on dated with women of other races, said they like black men, and I hear the same thing. I don't think I look like Freddy Kruger? Hell, he might have a better connection. Hey, he might have more game! I notice something, the other day. Women who is educated, who has a career, or just have the basic. A job, palace to live, and a car. Are the ones who say the same lines. But if there a woman who struggling, or between jobs, or even has a room mate, they are interested! Why is ? I don't ask a person status, or situation when I go on a date with them. I guess it's different with women, maybe it's just me? I can offer kindness, a good conversation. a man who enjoy the simple things in life. Honest and sincere. educated too! Maybe at times I don't use the proper wording. I always put my best foot forward, and be respectful. Didn't get me wrong, I also love sex too. When they end it, they don't even want to be friends! maybe I don't fit the bill or meet their criteria. Whatever the case, if you don't "Wow"! them on the first date, Believe me! "You don't get a second chance!           |
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The simplest of things matter the most to me too my friend, and your so right most don't get a second chance.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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I can't speak for others, but what turns me on with a guy outside of me being physically attracted to him is 1. Clean healthy teeth 2. is how he is dressed, 3. his scent with or w/o cologne, 4. how he carries himself. I'm a sapiosexual so I've had men that don't dress well, don't smell good or bad, but have amazing conversation to the point that my panties were soaked and I had to excuse myself and freshen up in the bathroom. Some guys are pretty clueless and self-evolved which is a huge turn-off. TopShelf-Chocl8
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4/7/2019 9:01 pm |
50 first dates is a really good movie.
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50 First Dates... Absolutely great movie... one of Sandler's best! That was a touching movie. 👍❤️ I've watched it more than once. Try to date women with a memory loss issue and practise on them. 😶 😱😬😂 Hey... it's what it is. Fall off the bike? Ya got two choices. Get back on and give it another shot... or give up? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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First...I suggest you delete your blog post on this subject... really bad idea to tell women [on a dating site, or anywhere], other women don't want to go out with you a second time, especially on a dating site. That's bad advertising for you. I think you might be trying too hard to "Wow" the women, and trying too hard to be this "Gentleman" character. .....Maybe you should just try being relaxed, and be real. Tell these women, when you meet them, "If you don't have lust for me, don't waste my time". ....If you think about it, that does makes sense. Are you just wanting to hangout with women to be her token gay best buddy? [Probably not]. Also never accept just being friends with women whom you wanted to see naked [date]. First you get sex, then you can just hangout sometimes....But if a woman doesn't have sex with you again, drop her immediately, walk away. Women who is educated, had a career, or just have the basic. A job, palace to live, and a car. Are the ones who say the same lines. But if there a woman who struggling, or between jobs, or even has a room mate, they are interested! Why is that?..... Simple, the women who are independent don't need a man playing "Provider gentleman", she mostly just wants to get laid, fucked on her free time, when she has that free time from work and other stuff. If she doesn't want to get laid?... Then she's wasting your time. The women who are struggling on their own, would more likely want a man to come along and take care of her situation. I don't look at a person status, or financial situation when I go on a date with them. ..... You really should. Why? Because if something does happen, and you get serious [marry them], their financial status [credit scores] will adversely [really bad] affect your credit scores. Basically if you merge with someone with a financial disease, you are going to get that disease. I guess it's different with women,.... Shouldn't be different. Men can be financial losers , too. And that would ruin her credit status, if it's already good. Women generally want to be with men who are doing well financially, or better than her, financially. maybe it's just me? ... Not just you. Lots of men pretend the role of Gentleman, thinking that will get him laid. I can offer kindness, a good conversation..... So? Her girlfriends and gay males buddies [friendzoned saps] give her kindness and conversation. If she goes out with you, she should want dick. She should have some lust for you. Don't ignore that. If the woman is going out with you to recruit you into her "Friendzone" , walk the fuck away. Men [you] have friends already... men [you] want some pussy! a man who enjoy the simple things in life. ..... If that is code for "Financially struggling", then stay away from women who are independent. If you're in that situation, I'm sorry, but dating [getting laid] is going to be difficult. Latching onto a woman who is in the same boat as a man who is financially struggling, is not a good idea. Now there is a couple who are co-dependent on each other.... this is not a good situation to be in. Honest and sincere.,.... People read/hear that, and what do they say? ...They say, "That's nice". .....NICE! , the kiss of death when it comes to getting laid. Not going to happen. I'm educated too! ... That increases your potential, but again, the women you want , the independent women, [should] want lust and fucking, not to sit there and talk about stuff . ... If you do find women who put "Conversation" ahead of , "Looking for lust".... don't waste your time going out with her. and be respectful...... Vague, but don't over do "Being respectful", either. "Respect" is earned. She, having a pussy, doesn't get her respect. When they end it, they don't even want to be friends! ... Dude!! That's perfect!!! maybe I don't fit the bill or meet their criteria..... That's right. You don't. You're trying to be a gentleman, more than you are tying to be yourself. The entire point of going out with a woman, is to have sex with each other. [The exception: One is too old , or the equipment doesn't work, then you go out for conversation]. While the equipment works, don't waste your time on women who just want to converse. She should have lust for you. If she doesn't. Dump her on the spot. Whatever the case, if you don't "Wow"! them on the first date, Believe me! "You don't get a second chance! .... It's not about "Wowing" her... it's about "Turning her on". ..... If you don't turn her on [no lust] then that's why you don't get a second chance. IF!! she does give you a second chance, even though you didn't turn her on.... then she's recruiting token gay buddies to give her cerebral attention and ego attention. Dump her.
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I think it all boils down to a connection, chemistry, a feeling. It is hard to define. I can see the most handsome man walking and still not find that feeling that you want to have in a relationship. Some people will force a relationship just to have one and then wonder why they don’t feel happy with it. It is just something you can’t force. It just has to be. I hate dating, always have. But without it you will never get there. I know it sucks. 😏
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4/7/2019 4:36 pm |
kind of makes no sense to me ..I am kind of in the same situation here..I got so much to give the right man but some seem to have all the eagerness of a puppy but once that eagerness is gone then its a ghost town..social and/or monetary status should not matter to someone who is looking for someone serious enough to want more than one date..Its frustrating ..but as we get older a more stable companion should be the first choice , ok sex is important but who says it has to be on a first meet , to those who just hook up yeah but otherwise should be less important who the hell knows...I don't offer sex on the first meet , one might expect and if they do then they can move on by..
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4/7/2019 4:19 pm |
I hope you read my blog! Also let me know what you think about this situation. Thx
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