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Wishing dreams could come true  

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12/14/2014 12:14 pm
Wishing dreams could come true

Today my post will deal with that interesting realm of dreams, landscape that for so long I have dismissed, as so many of us do. I realized its importance once I started practicing meditation, and was able to draw important parallels between such state, and sleep. Now my opinion of dreams have changed radically, and I pay attention far more carefully to what is represented in them. I see it as a window to not only your own subconscious, or a form of your own body communicating with you, but also a communication between you and the outside world. I would dare to venture that it is more than just mere spiritual speculation. Like many other lifeforms, we are equipped with acute sensory system that allows us to interpret the world around us, primarily to enhance our survival. However, much of that communication is beyond our conscious interpretation (as it would be too taxing to interpret so much information), and fragments of that communication is distilled to us in what we assume as symbolism in our dreams.

So why topic of dreams? Because two special women that have already graced the pages of this blog have recently been intertwined in dreamy escapades with me. One of them recounted a dream of hers that included me, while the other has visited me in a dream of my own. I will add to my musings that I also tend to believe that you cannot dream of someone without their explicit "permission", or some form of desire of involvement, which only heightens the importance of these nightly encounters.

And now to the dreams.

First it included my Spanish friend I have previously introduced in When tragedy strikes turning down sex. With an endearing bashfulness, she has admitted to me she dreamt of having amazing passionate sex with me. It was such a vivid experience for her, she ventured to say she really wants to experience the real deal now. I admitted to her that I would cherish to participate in such circumstance of making dreams come true. But I will admit that apart from boosting my ego that a beautiful woman would invite me into a sexual union in her dream (which lets face it ladies, for some of your it can be more fulfilling experience than the real deal), I also felt very grateful to her for willing to share this information... to open up to me in such a vulnerable landscape. After discussing it, we both felt as if we already really had sex, or rather, having that comfort of trust you can experience with someone you share your body with.

The second dream involved my long-time recipient of my hearts affection which I introduced in Falling in love again and again. This time it was a dream of my own where she played an integral part. The main theme of the dream was her preparation for my upcoming birthday (this dream indeed took place prior to my birthday not too long ago) which was focused on making that day special for me. But the setting of the dream was also special, as much of our discussion about the topic took place as if we were a couple (but not exactly, in a dream she was not my girlfriend, and that was clear): we did sleep in same bed, cuddling, woke up together, and much of our discussion took place during morning routine while still in our pyjamas. And as part of her gifts to come, to get me excited, she took my hand and put inside her pjs on her cute bum to be caressed by me, while happily telling me how much she looked forward to my birthday.

Interesting, because in real life she also invited me to travel to NY with her, and we would have celebrated my birthday there. At first I got very excited about this idea, but in the end I politely declined. After all, she is actually in a relationship with another man, and while I can<b> love </font></b>her quietly on a side, as my dear friend, I did not want to get involved in a potentially confusing scenario.

But nevertheless, I think these dreams are not isolated accidental incidents.

Rather, they are gentle communication between me and the wider world, and probably pointing to events of significance, of what is yet to come.

Or so I hope, that's for sure

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