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Why women flirt with you to get to another man?!!!
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Why women flirt with you to get to another man?!!! I bet you any man reading this post could relate to this!!! Either being the victim of watching the woman you are interested in flirting away with another man, or being the victim of seduction when you are not the ultimate prize!!! Well, I have been in both situations, and just recently in the form of the latter. I recently broke out of my beautiful European countryside isolation cocoon to go to a music festival. I was obviously excited as countryside provides me with lots of gorgeous nature exposure, but... not many women. I love music festivals, I love to dance, so I knew I would have good time. And indeed, it was a grand event. And in amongst the crowd I spotted a woman dancing with intricate pattern, unabashedly exotic and provocative moves that you just dont see that often in any crowd. Let alone some folk music festival!!! I was instantly curious so I asked her if she could dance closer to the fire so I can enjoy watching her skills (I was already in my own dancing trance). To my disappointment, the beautiful girl look like a , so we danced, but I didnt engage in any further conversation. Good thing she did, because it turned out that this gorgeous but delicate looking petite woman was almost 30, and we fell into amazing spiritual discourse the like of which you know you can only receive from one with lots of life experience, lots of thought... and lots of pain in their past. So close was our connection that we celebrated it with passionate kisses in the field overlooking the mist-covered festival grounds, and feeling the magic of that beautiful moment. And then we danced and danced, we were definitely the only pair of the kind, dancing sensually, beautifully and provocatively. But I sensed attention on me, not virulent and aggressive, but certainly the type where I was a source of jealousy, and maybe confusion. it came from the stage, from one of the musicians performing. That men would appear once in a while like a shadow on the periphery of our existence, like a sullen ghost. It became obvious that he had invested interest in that woman, and although most attention was falling on me, I could recognize that person was not indifferent to her. Once again, I found myself in awkward situation, getting attention from truly beautiful slender and seemingly amazing woman, and definitely wanting more, but recognizing that something was amiss. Later my friend told me that she too also felt the<b> jealousy </font></b>from that particular person too. And next day in the daylight, when magic of the night was all gone, I saw them together, and it seemed like tender affection was indeed passing between these two. Affection that was genuine, crafted on some new understanding between them. It felt to me like I was played for a pawn. Not insidiously. I certainly did not feel victimized. On contraire. I loved my time with that beautiful woman. But I felt like I simply was used for a role, to evoke certain reaction in someone else and that was the ultimate goal. It is not the first time I found myself in such situation, being on either side in the past. And I must admit that I find it fascinating that women can play such complicated ruse to get a certain message across. I find it fascinating because it appears to me as a language of emotions rather than words, where the emotions, those expressed, and those meant to be provoked, is the communique. I find it fascinating, because I find it so much more complicated than old fashion discussion (although I wont deny that perhaps by that point all discussions failed?), and in my mind, potentially so prone to failure (ha not in the case of that night! That man sure was not leaving her side following morning!)  It seems like such a dangerous game of emotions, where passion can be pushed to undesired or unexpected limits!!!And in the end, I was left with longing desire to learn more about that beautiful woman with whom I had such a wonderful connection. I wished it wasn't granted to me for just one night... |
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9/13/2014 5:04 am |
i love being flirted with no matter the reason
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of course, like most men, been there too, fortunately in my young formative years...imprinted well, because I will not be patsy too, or have my feelings manipulated by one so disingenuous. to its foundation, the female is manipulating another man to make her boyfriend jealous, well good luck with that...it seems two such souls deserve each other. you of course took it all with dignity and grace, far better man than I... 
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I'm sorry to read that she used you that way.. In fact, I had forgotten that my gender does treat men like pawns at times.. May you find someone like that for yourself that wants you for you... Gentle hugs Stars.. I enjoyed your writing.. Please write more  Looking forward to a good year ahead!! Stars_light4U
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Now, perhaps I should give it some thoughts to use this method for my current dilemma? Seems like a good idea. LOL. "Some women aren't meant to be tamed. They just need to run free until they find someone just as wild to run with them." - Sex and the City
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