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Are We Getting Our Money's Worth?
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Are We Getting Our Money's Worth? At a rate that figures at about a dollar a day, or less, or even considerably less, depending on the duration of membership purchased, Senior Sizzle/XMatch is a decent deal. But when the system fails to work as designed and intended, the value of said membership diminishes, perhaps dramatically. Yesterday was such a case in point. I was almost finished penning this, when the system glitched, threw me off of this screen and dumped my work into untraceable cyberspace. The most frequent and frustrating failure of the site is the IM. It is 'down' to some degree or another as much as or more than it is 'up' and operating properly. I wonder if this s purposeful, to deprive standard members of a way to communicate with other members? It used to be that standard members could receive, read an respond to email messages from paid members. But they changed that and offered the standard members contact feature, where paid member can pay more to communicate with standard members. What has me whizzed enough to make me write this is the system's refusal to allow me to edit/update information in portions of the Questions and Answers section. And from I've seen on other profiles, I am not the only member experiencing this. I contacted the administrator about this problem and was assured that it would be quickly remedied. It has not been. It has allowed me to write in a couple of interests, like cum/squirt and kissing, especially cum kissing. But it will not add any of the preselected Sexual Interests, no matter how many times I check the little boxes beside them. Granted, giving oral sex is probably my top turn-on, so I'm glad it's listed first and does show up as my answer. But there are many of the other choices that I"d like to list, as well. Several of them are not necessarily necessary for my own satisfaction, but to express my enjoyment of them for my partners' pleasures, from which I derive much of my pleasure and satisfaction. I have tried and tried to check the boxes for Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys, Urolagnia, Rimming, Fetishes, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home Movies and Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Leather, Latex, Fising and Massage. I might include nipple torture, in terms of a woman pinching mine between her nails, as I snap my fingers on hers, or precisely pouring hot candle wax on them, or covering them with a hot metal MaryJane bowl. There is very little that is sexually OFF LIMITS for me. I would include Coprophilia, to go along with Sadomasochism. The Missus and I always said that we were open to and into most any and every 'thing' except pain and poop. I won't include Pain in and of itself, as I've named a couple above that I recall as being excruciatingly exquisite. I would add the searing slashing of flesh by a woman's long nails. Sexual experience is a prime consideration in seeking a compatible sexual partner. But there are additional characteristics which are also important, like Same/Similar Fetishes, Openness to menage a trois/orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to openly discuss and try anything, and Creativity/Kinkiness level. And though I consider ears and underarms two of the most underappreciated, ignored, and intensely erogenous zones, I consider much of the entire body to be an erogenous zone, if accepted as such. Beyond the obvious, I would definitely include Lips, Neck, Hands/Fingers, Chest, Belly/Abs, Butt, Inner Thighs, Feet/Toes (the most sensual part of the body), Mind (the biggest sex organ) and Hair, especially feminine body hair. Now, I notice that the system has narrowed my locations for sex to my king size bed in front of my big bedroom fireplace and my role play scenarios to /John. Of course, in my life's experience, that scenario was /Joan, much like the Boss/Secretary scene would have a She Boss. Other chosen scenes are supposed to be Stranger/Stranger and Student/Teacher. As for locations, I have always included middle of a park, as long as it's a wilderness spot, like Cedarock Park, under a waterfall, like I did on my honeymoon, my desk and in a hotel room. I DON'T include a swimming pool or hot tub, because water washes away the body's natural lubrication. And I don't include the beach, because sand gets into everything! Anyway, despite the relative value that we are receiving for our paid membership fees, you would think that the millions upon millions that those fees add up to would be sufficient for the system to hire and employ a competent, conscientious IT team to keep the system operating properly. Okay, that is my rant. And it does put on my profile all the information I have not been able to include as I am supposed to be able to do. |
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