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For the Guys having no luck  

SweetValleyOwl 48F
64 posts
6/22/2018 7:24 am
For the Guys having no luck


Here's some advice to make a better impression...

Do not open with "Hi" ... talk about lack of effort
"How are you?" this is also a sad opening ... you don't know me so any answer is relative -- I suppose if some red flag came back telling you all her problems you'd know to run away ... but I see this opener as wasting my time ...
"Nice tits" .... that's a thanks and good bye from me,, not an introduction.. but I appreciate the compliment.

If I have to look at your profile to see whether you line up with any of my interests you're losing points from me...

Here's a template ....

Hi , my name is THIS...( its weird not telling someone your name before going into wanting to meet up , to me ) I live in THIS AREA .... im interested in you because of THIS (shows you read my profile ) I generally want to know the height of someone as im 5'7" and like alphas and its rare to look down on one.. I like knowing what you do because maybe you have skills or hobbies I'd find fun as well as blowing you...

If you don't put more effort into courting me than you would expend ordering a pizza then fuck off... ya know?

Write some copy and cut and paste that while adding an extra personalized line... its not much work.. and while your chances on here being a guy are probably much lower than a real girl who was born with a vagina -- that's the deal


Also if you have your Dick as an avatar that's pretty much my first impression ... youre a dick... not like I wouldn't want to see it if I wanted to meet .... just personal preference here ... not the rule, but if you fail to imagine my side of the experience its points off...

Play Safe ... be Kind
xo

discreetyum 63M
78 posts
6/22/2018 7:29 am

Thank you......

Jeff


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
6/22/2018 8:11 am

"...don't put more effort into courting me than you would expend ordering a pizza..."



It's like when they say "hi," they expect you to come back with "how may I help you?"


HotGuyFantasy 35M

6/22/2018 8:22 am

Nice of you to give this advice. Maybe just sposor our gold membership


SweetValleyOwl replies on 6/29/2018 11:15 am:
so is this what it feels like when girls ask strangers to buy things for them? Da Faq?! lol

arabgirl65 59F
50 posts
6/22/2018 8:50 am

    Quoting HotGuyFantasy:
    Nice of you to give this advice. Maybe just sposor our gold membership
You could just pay for your own membership. We didn't hold your hand when you signed up here.


alohashirt50 73M

6/22/2018 9:28 am

well you are showing a breast, so nice tits, then show something else?


SweetValleyOwl replies on 6/29/2018 11:13 am:
no thanks

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
6/22/2018 10:57 am

You learn about common sense and how to respect others during the most
impressionable years of our lives,our youth.It's not likely that those who never did
are all of sudden be overcome with it.

I read probably 5 or 6 of these rants every month.Which begs the question.
How many messages do you receive before you realise that you aren't
commanding the respect you deserve so you have to resort to demanding it.

Using more than all the road!


SweetValleyOwl replies on 6/29/2018 11:02 am:
this week? about 50 - but its' more about helping someone gain perspective.. not an instant fix

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
6/22/2018 11:34 am

    Quoting HotGuyFantasy:
    Nice of you to give this advice. Maybe just sposor our gold membership
Why would any of us sponsor someone for Gold who hasn't the decency to fill out his entire profile??? And the only and only blog is not a winner either

(Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group


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