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cwazywabbit009 59M
1507 posts
12/16/2013 7:26 am
Sure .....


sounded like the start of a scam attempt:
melissa075
Hi, I would be very happy to know you better.
Melissa

Me
Hello. While I am flattered, don't you think we live an awful long way apart (5500km/3300 miles)?

melissa075
Distance has no meaning when it comes to relationship. What matter most is true love and mutual understanding. Let us know each other better. Do you have Yahoo messenger?

Me
I do but I do not give it out to people I do not know. Sorry to say but I do not know you. In today's world, anyone on a computer can say anything and be anyone so it behooves one to think safety first.

melissa075
I'm here with good intentions. Don't use others to judge others. I am here for serious relationship not to hurt anybody. I really want to know you better.

Me
I agree 100% with not judging others to judge someone but at the same time, the lessons we learn better prepare us for the future. For example, I have received messages from single woman with one picture on their profile before, who live a long way from me, who give out their name in their message (a big no-no), and their sentence structure imply that English is not their first language. With all that, wouldn't you be careful too?

and then there was silence. Not that surprising though.
What would you have done?

Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
12/16/2013 7:44 am

It's funny because I say the same things to the delusional men that are miles and miles away.


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
12/16/2013 7:47 am

And, thats the thing here. Men want your email like in the first chat. When I say that I don't give out personal information to someone I dont know they immediately get defensive and lash out. You have to chat a bit before personal disclosures are made. Otherwise, if there is no interest, why bother sharing an email address? People need to get a dose of reality here. That is all


cwazywabbit009 replies on 12/16/2013 8:00 am:
Thank you for your comments MissCinders. These men that ask for emails and then lash out when you say no give themselves away by their actions. Apparently they never learned that trust is something that has to be earned and that acting like an asshole only gets doors slammed in your face. It all comes down to respect and treating others like you would like to be treated, an alien concept to an unfortunately large number of men on here.

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