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Are you really "KINKY"  

happycouple1120 59M/54F
26 posts
9/1/2014 8:32 am
Are you really "KINKY"
The word "kinky" seems to mean different things to different people. When we were new, we pretty much avoided the people that listed themselves as "kinky".

Since then, we have figured out that not only do a lot of people NOT know the meaning of "kinky" but then there is everyone's perception of what it means.

I did something that we ( men ) need to do more of..... ask .. So,, i pulled out the dictionary ( ok, i went to dictionary dot com ) lol and looked up the word.

kinky = given to unusual , abnormal or deviant sexual practices

We have also found that people have their own meaning. We had one couple point out that just the act of "swapping" was kinky and i guess by definition it is, right ??

We are wondering where you put yourself as "a couple" not just the guy.

Do you consider yourselves "KINKY" ( pick the answer that best fits )
We are NOT kinky
We are kinky all the time
We think swapping is kinky enough
We ARE the definition of KINKY
We only like KINKY sex
We like to mix in some KINKY sex along w/ "normal" sex


toolforyourbox 59M
Ask me for a photo
752 posts
9/1/2014 8:41 am

 Is it kinky to enjoy kissing a woman after she gives you head or lick her then fill her and lick her again or let me cum on her face and lick it up?


happycouple1120 59M/54F
14 posts
9/1/2014 5:30 pm

 No,
i think so,
&
definitely YES


Shifgrethor 68M
588 posts
9/6/2014 7:43 pm

 Only the ends of the straight to kink spectrum are obvious.
Intercourse in the missionary position with your spouse in bed at night in the dark while trying to make a baby is not kinky.
Sex that will get you arrested in most jurisdictions if others knew about it is definitely kinky.
Pretty much everything in between depends on the side of the spectrum from which it is viewed. One person's straight can be kinky for someone else.


pussyeater60543 69M
17 posts
9/22/2014 3:45 am

 if it feels good, you like it, gets you off and your partner likes it how can it be kinky. as long as its with in the law.


808alldaybrah 64M/58F
3 posts
10/8/2014 2:50 am

 Kinky is in the eyes of the beholder. Having sex with another partner may be considered kinky while their husband or wife watches. Kinky, may be just simply kissing your other couples partner with simple touching. Or better yet, meeting a couple poolside for the day and just talking about the many events going on in the world and possible events for the evening could be considered kinky. The point here is "Kinky" is what each individual feels as arousing and most importantly, both agree to the next step what ever that may be


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