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HONEST LOOK
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HONEST LOOK I started to take a honest look at what I want on this site, and boy I see why I turn down so many invites, I am not into one night stands, I don't want a different lover every time I have sex, I know some people on here don't have a problem with that, That is what they want not me, I know we write a lot of things in our profiles, I am guilty of it to get the views or response, but do we really want what we say in our profiles? are we being honest with ourselves. It seems hard to talk to the other person about your wants when their mind is set on having sex with you, I am not looking for marriage, a long term relationship or being someone's mistress, I just want one lover whom I have sexual excitement with, a lover that I have fun outside the bedroom, a lover that listen when I rant, and I do the same for him, a lover to say " hey want to take a drive to nowhere just because " , some will say that is a relationship yes it is. anytime you spend time with someone over a period of time it is a relationship, that doesn't mean it is a serious relationship, It is a friend with great benefits, because we don't promise each other anything, we just enjoy each other with the time we have together, THAT IS WHAT I HONESTLY WANT, WHAT DO YOU HONESTLY WANT? those who read this blog before you respond please really think about what I have written, Thank you for your comments and taking the time to respond to my blog |
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So, I have had to check myself at the door for a while. I've been asking myself why I bother coming to this site as well.. I have discovered things about myself while here though.. I know how difficult a long distance relationship can be. ESPECIALLY, when you meet on a site like this one and you write a blog where any given interaction with a person who leaves a comment can be suspected of another affair. I find that it's easier to limit myself and really take a look at what I want to give up for a quick little affair that will be over before it started because I already know what each other look like naked.
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Just exactly what you said.........plain, simple things to enjoy! To see a huge smile, just because we get together! Enjoy life as it comes, with no strings attached. Romance her heart, tease her body, enjoy the company shared in bed n out! Treasure every moment spent together, in good times n bad! Cum visit my blog, you're always welcum!  submokey Become a watcher! THINK PINK!
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Stay true to yourself !
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Well, knowing what you really want is always a good first step .... As for me, it's pretty much the same -- though at this point I've pretty much given up on ever finding such a person for myself ....so when it comes to being here, I just show up every once in a while to read some blogs and get a mental stimulation of different sort than I do with work or my hobbies.....
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Every relationship I have been in started with me thinking Oh Boy Oh boy I am gonna mind my peas and Q's to get in her pants . Then bang she trips the snare and Uh Oh I am in a serious relationship saying yes dear no dear .. Only one did I say I want that one for keeps and that was five years ago and I met her on this site . Good Luck to you just keep on trucking until it does happen anyway most of them guys were probably married and looking for some on the side .
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