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Tell me sweet little lies
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Tell me sweet little lies I wonder can we be honest with each other? or do we know how to be honest? When you get a message do wonder if the person is being honest with you? If you read their profile are you wondering if they are being honest and upfront about it? Or are you being dishonest to yourself believing that everyone on here is honest? Ok we all know this is a sex site or hook up site, but do you have to be so dishonest about being married or a couple, or anything in your profile. Will it get more women or men by lying to the person or persons you are trying to get? I was thinking about because I read a blog on here from a blogger who was lied to so badly, She didn't get what she wanted but he got what he wanted a person to use, I look at it this way everyone on here has feelings no matter what they are looking for, No one can say if you have an encounter you would or would not fall in love with that person or care deeply for that person, you never know what may happen , but would you use that person because they have deep feeling for you? knowing you feel nothing for them but you can get what you want out of them because they feel for you? For all those who read this blog please just think about this before you comment, Don't get me wrong I never said I was a saint, Yes I have done it before and regret the hell out of it, it bother me for a long time and I vowed to never do it again. BECAUSE KARMA IS A BITCH. AND IT DOESN'T FEEL SO GOOD WHEN IT HAPPEN TO YOU. |
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I find there is a lot of dishonesty on here. I am up front and honest about my feelings, the info on my profile, and the interactions I've had on here. The people I've met usually aren't. Every once in a while I'm surprised, and meet someone genuine, but they are far and few between. Perhaps I am one of those far and few between people as well....
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No one is completely honest, but the best indication of honesty is when you look them in the face!!!!
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I always try to be honest, but I have strayed, but if anyone came between my wife and I, I'll cut them out of my life, I haven't strayed since my first son was born in 1981
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Well said. Despite the smoke and mirrors of this uninhibited phantasmagoria of wish-fulfilment that we inhabit on this site, there is a person behind the persona, behind all our personas. Stay true to yourself. P
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I keep coming back to your profile pic... I don't know what it is... I can't quite put my finger on it... But, it may cum to me soon!!! just sayin'... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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I think being honest has more to recommend it than just consideration for the feelings of another person, important though their feelings should be. Apart from the fact that you can never be appreciated for who you really are unless you show who you really are, I think lying is something which eats away at your self respect. Some people are better than others at seeing through a false front, but nearly everyone can sense when something is missing in another person's psyche. Maybe there are lots of people who can mislead others without caring, but I think most people, even if on the surface they are just looking for a hook up, if they get that at someone else's expense by lying, they are not going to feel good about themselves. And we all know that the sexiest people are the ones who feel good about themselves, aren't they?
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Uh oh, seriousness eh?, that's an effort for me. As a younger man I was somewhat of a user, not cause I got off on it, just stupid and really didn't give a D. Now that I'm a middle-aged, mature gent,I treat women I'm interested in the way I'd want to be treated, whether it's a serious or casual relationship, I'm honest what I'm about upfront. So now I end up having that openness used against me or getting me fired. Could be karma I guess but as much as I'd like to believe in karma,I've seen too much bad behavior go unpunished. But not gonna change my ways, other people are gonna do what they do.Standards are people too.....kinda 
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I always try not to lie, If I speak to a woman I'm attracted to and she's willing, I tell her "It's never going anywhere, I'm married and I'm never going to leave her! It is just sex, I please you, you please me".
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In my experience here, I find that guys lie about everything if they think that sex is even a remote possibility. That of course means that the lie all the time, and about pretty much everything: marital status, sexuality, length, weight, age, stds, and on and on. ask t hem a question and you get a lie. woman on the other hand are honest. That is the way it has been for me.. so there you go, just the facts. The question now is what to do about it? I have come to the place where I only come here to chat and blog..... My plans have me just going sailing/... kisses
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I'm married and happy , I like this site because I can post a joke and if I receive a reply I like it.
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Hi porterpiper1. thanks for the post. It is never a good thing when only one person gets what they want in a relationship. that can happen on this site or in real life... I've always thought that we create our own problems... The advertising directed at me from this site does not convey the illusions of finding a wife, a virgin, a woman that wants true love. On the contrary, I am inundated solely with the promise of having sex, uninhibited from many that are here just for that reason... Now, like you, I am not a saint, but, I also don't believe in taking for the sake of taking... I'm obviously, not alone, as I read the plight of many here that question the intention of men and women alike... they seemed surprised of the nudity in the pictures and/or videos. It's funny to me, that people on both sides of the gender pool feel slighted... and, yet, like 'Animal Farm' people want to find that person of their dreams regardless of the signs that are right in front of them... we are all here for a reason... every little thing we've done in life has led us to here, right now... I do hope that everyone finds what they are looking for... reminds me of a song... Fleetwood Mac - "Little Lies" If I could turn the page In time then I'd rearrange just a day or two Close my, close my, close my eyes But I couldn't find a way So I'll settle for one day to believe in you Tell me, tell me, tell me lies Tell me lies Tell me sweet little lies (Tell me lies, tell me, tell me lies) Oh, no, no you can't disguise (You can't disguise, no you can't disguise) Tell me lies Tell me sweet little lies Although I'm not making plans I hope that you understand there's a reason why Close your, close your, close your eyes No more broken hearts We're better off apart let's give it a try Tell me, tell me, tell me lies Tell me lies Tell me sweet little lies (Tell me lies, tell me, tell me lies) Oh, no, no you can't disguise (You can't disguise, no you can't disguise) Tell me… To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Someday, perhaps, you will find solace in cynicism.
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No matter what you are looking for sometimes things change, life is an ever changing, ever evolving thing. I try to be straight forward but things can change for people.....
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I don't lie about who I/we are, our couple dynamic, or what perspective partners can expect from us. Since we both look for something more than a one night stand, it doesn't pay to be dishonest up front and ruin a good friendship. Besides we're well known enough outside the swingers community ,we couldn't get away with lying anyway.
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I think everyone lies. But its a subtle thing. The way I act at home, work, when out with my mates, they all see subtly different persons. Being too honest is a nightmare. Would my parents be happy if they knew everything that goes on in my marriage. I often have to lie to my boss and say I can do things when I can't and then go and find out how to do something. I don't think many folk are truely 100% honest on here otherwise all the blokes would have cock pictures on the profile and a comment about wanting it sucked... 
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I hope nobody thinks blogs and truth are anyway connected you can't believe a word of mine . Ora Mae and me made a deal no need to lie she still thinks I'm lying sometimes when I tell her what went on when she was just a little bitty baby
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Good morning. No BS on my profile. It's pretty straight-forward. 
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Don't watch and believe the presidential candidates -- talk about deception!
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Don't worry about karma. No one knows when it's working. You get cheated on by your husband, maybe that was karmatic payback, and by him cheating, completed the lesson. So don't go there. I wonder can we be honest with each other? ...Why? If it takes telling a lie to get someone to meet with you, tell the lie. The organic meeting tells each what they need to know. When you get a message do wonder if the person is being honest with you? .....Sometimes, but it's not important. If I meet them, that will create an actual reality. If you read their profile are you wondering if they are being honest and upfront about it? .... No. I would expect some fabrication. Or are you being dishonest to yourself believing that everyone on here is honest? .... That's more like being stupid. Ok we all know this is a sex site or hook up site, but do you have to be so dishonest about being married or a couple, .... If I was, then "Yes". The idea is to get an organic meeting. Will it get more women or men by lying to the person or persons you are trying to get? ..... Yes, it can. There needs to be a chance given. She didn't get what she wanted but he got what he wanted a person to use, .... She participated. It's not all his fault. I look at it this way everyone on here has feelings .... So you should expect to be lied to. but would you use that person because they have deep feeling for you? .... Maybe I would, depends on how she looks. However women have done this "Using" thing for millions of years. That's why women are professional deceivers. She's had to be tricky and cunning to survive. For men, it's simple. The goal is getting his erection in her. knowing you feel nothing for them but you can get what you want out of them because they feel for you? .... Again, if there were millions of years of history, you'd see that women are professionals at doing this. But you really don't need millions of years of history. Just go look around at couples, or hang out in any club. Most common men fall for , "Buy me a drink", and the dumbass buys her a drink. Another, "Wine and dine me first", and the dumbass wines and dines her. Doesn't bother me, getting what I want. This is a sex site, not an eharmony or match site. At most there is a hook up for once or a few times. It's called "Dating" [aka: getting sex]. She participates by saying , yes or no. Yes means yes, no means no. Really simple.
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2/19/2016 1:22 am |
hi my name is charles and I have been separated for 3 years now and will never get back with my ex and I am in the process of the divorce. I am honest up front ask me anything u want and I will be blunt. BTW u have awesome areolas and nipples
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