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Just a bit of venting for the couples out there...  

BiGuy77381 55M  
20 posts
1/26/2020 2:41 am
Just a bit of venting for the couples out there...

Look, I understand that guys are a dime a dozen in this lifestyle... Hell, the wife and I have to put up with it all the time on our couple's profile - rude jerks that don't take the time to read what we are looking for, etc.... I have understood this for 30 years as a guy that plays solo in the "lifestyle" and have always wondered how any of those guys actually have any luck.

But I have always taken the time to read what a couple is looking for, and take great lengths not to write or attempt to those where I don't fit what they are looking for. (But keep in mind, a lot of couples probably do not list enough in their profile to clearly articulate what they are looking for either.)

When I write, I try to take the time to introduce myself, explain I am and what I am looking for, and even try to reference their profile to show that I actually read what they are looking for. I try not to use vulgar language, and I guarantee I have never sent a that said, "hey, let's fuck" - if I am realy interested, I even a face picture in my first .

I have been known to "hotlist" a profile while on my because I like the pictures and want to go see them on the big screen later... and yes, some of those pictures have made it into my favorites, even if they are not looking for someone like me - including some cock pics of straight guys. But it should not offend anyone if I do this, especially if I do not bother them with making . Yet, I have had more than one couple take the time to me a and complain that I hotlisted them when they and I were clearly not a match.... REALLY? Get over it... I didn't you!

(There have been a few messages that I sent to simply compliment them on their profile or pictures when we were not a match, but I do NOT expect a reply then... I just do it to express how impressed I was at the time)

But what this rant is really about is not getting ANY reply when I take the time to actually a somewhat well thought ..... and then hear NOTHING from them.

I understand that I am not everyone's match... I try hard not to any messages where it is obvious that I am not a match. (such as they want "shaved clean" below, or they only want HWP, or athletic only, etc.... and I have never sent a message if their profile did not say they were looking for men, or if the side said he was straight - unless it indicated in the profile otherwise)

But really???? How hard is it to simply "reply" and say "no thanks" - trust me, you will not hurt my feelings. Like I said, the wife and I have to do it all the time.... clicks on the keyboard: "reply" - "no thanks" - "" - "delete" :: That is ALL it takes!

But here is one thing you can put in your profile that will ensure that I never a - just in case you want to keep my chubby, bi-sexual thoughts from ever contacting you:

"If we don't reply, take that as a sign that we are not interested" - fuck you and your self-righteous opinion of yourselves!!

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