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Ranting after Rote Rejection (or Mommy, Make Them Play Nice!)
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Ranting after Rote Rejection (or Mommy, Make Them Play Nice!) Sometimes I wonder about the men on this site. Sometimes, I don't. What follows is a blog posting made by a 36 year old man. “One thing i have noticed on this site is that a lot of people especially women come on here with very unrealistic expectations and think its only about them in which its not there are men on here as well and we are looking just as well. They complain and moan about looks and all this other crap like people did in high school, instead we all should be looking beyond the high school stuff and be adults. And dudes on here wont call a woman out on her bullshit because they don't want to hurt their chances of getting the pussy which shouldn't matter, if we are adults we should be able to call each other out if we are having our heads up our asses and be brought back to reality. I see on blogs about how women say if they aren't interested how they will put u in the friend zone and other things.... Now I don't think a woman would like that if she is pursing a dude she really likes and he says oh I'm not interested in u but hey we can be friends and I can see you like a sister or such. If woman wouldn't want to be put in the friend zone then don't do that to men. Be realistic. A lot of women on here hold themselves back from actually meeting someone genuine because you all make it way difficult then it has to be and by also thinking because your tits, ass, and kitty is such a deciding factor when it comes to everything you all thinking because y'all got a pussy u all can make the rules woman (in which you cant) think its cool for y'all to be arrogant and in reality ur pussy is nothing without men and u all can have all the toys in the world its still useless without men. I know it seems like Im complaining but im not. Just tired of seeing women complain, how they cant meet anyone and 9 out of 10 its women who make it difficult not us so quick to throw looks, money, etc and its no need to do that. GROW UP LADIES!! We are all adults on here and when we all stop being self-centered then maybe we can all have fun on here. Just saying. Just be realistic in ur search ladies, stop worrying about height, how a person looks, where they live, how much money they make stop think u own the world women because u all dont.” Now, to be fair, I did wander over to the bloggers profile to see if he had any other major defects (beyond expressing himself TERRIBLY with regards to the rejection we can all take that he has received here) to note. What I encountered actually surprised me. The man was attractive, with a nice smile, and offered a variety of pictures that did not (shockingly, I might add) include a photo montage of his penis. Waiting for the next shoe to drop (you've read the blog posting, you know what I mean), I read the profile itself. “Black male, 5'9" with athletic body looking for a woman that wants to have fun I'm not looking for one night stands or just hook ups, so if thats all ur looking for we're not going to work, getting to old to be play hop scotch with partners. I love going to the movies,bowling,gaming and being on the computer. I work nights so it would be awesome to meet a nightowl! I love to have fun go downtown to the inner harbor when i can get a chance to go there. I'm very open minded, I always feel like if we're adults then we all should act like it and don't worry about how society views us. If I left anything out hit me up what else could I've put out there or you guys want to know. I'm always up to meeting in public until you ladies feel comfortable with me.And I am also willing to go into chats rooms point me out to a few. I leave my Cam on sometimes, so if anyone wants to see i am a real person just link up with me while I 'm broadcasting.” This was perplexing to me, as it would seem to imply that this man isn't one of those parasitic types that merely expects all of the women here to be open to sexual encounters with each and every man who asks. Which, to be certain, was the feel I got from the posting. Of course all of the women here should have sex with all of the unattractive, physically repulsive, married men that troll this website because AFTER ALL, this site is all about sex. But he didn't fit any of the typical dismissal categories. I was surprised, to say the least. Why then, was he so obviously being rejected? I defaulted to the rant of a blog post that drew me to evaluate the individual. I judged rather harshly from the rant stylings of th post, to be sure. I didn't imagine the person on the other end of it was anyone that every woman on here wouldn't reject out of course. The way that we present ourselves in words is the first glimpse of who we are that anyone receives here. Make a bad impression with words, and you may never get the chance to recover. The women here tend to be overwhelmed with options, so they may move on and seem more dismissive than one might deem fair. The odds really are in a woman's favor here, though, as long as she isn't looking for her next husband. Then, unless she is an amazing specimen, her search will be just as difficult as it seems from the complaints that men's searches are. For the first time ever, I will sincerely state that this male member may be worth a second look. Though his blog post doesn't shine a positive light on him, he seems to have unfathomed depth and potential. Of course, I'm no panderer. You'll need to search for his profile yourself. If you're in the Maryland area, anyway, he might be a good catch. |
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