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How Men Can Last Longer?
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How Men Can Last Longer? Movement, Breathing and Focus There are times when we want to sprint and other times when we want to be the long distance runner. Variety is the spice of sex life. While the quickie does have a place of honor in the collective memory of most adults, there are times when slow and steady win the race. Cruising Speed Instead of Racing For those private encounters when a couple feels that time and quantity equal quality, enjoyment for the female partner may depend on how long the male partner is able to last before ejaculating. In a sense, the goal is for the male to make his inner race car do something other than what it wants to do, choosing to cruise along at thirty miles an hour instead of racing off at eighty miles an hour and running out of fuel after five to ten breathless minutes. Being able to make the male pleasure centers do something other than what they normally do requires focusing on changes in movement, breathing and mental focus. Different Movement It is possible to have too much of a good thing, even when it comes to sex. Too much sensation too fast becomes the enemy of the man who wants to last longer. Thankfully, as the partner doing the penetrating, males can regulate how much sensation we feel and how fast that sensation comes. Slower, shallower strokes still feel good, but not to the point where male composure gets overwhelmed and ejaculation seems uncontrollable and unavoidable. Eastern love-making techniques espoused by Taoists suggest five slow, shallow thrusts for every slow deep thrust. The Taoist<b> philosophy </font></b>on orgasms was that they were reserved for women only, so a theory of male movement based on avoiding male ejaculation altogether should work well for those males who still want the Big O, yet want to delay it for a while. Different Breathing Breath control also plays a factor. Whether riding a roll-coaster or being ridden like one, when we get excited, we tend to hold our breath. Just as runners who breathe better can run longer, the same is true for men engaged in athletic loving-making. Taking slower, deeper breaths is a good way to fallback from the crescendo and prolong encounters with a partner. Different Focus: Thinking Of Everything But The Girl The notion of changing one's mental focus during love making is a little trickier. Batters are routinely told to keep their eyes on the ball. Inversely, one way to knock a homer out of this park is to keep the mental eye on everything but the ball. Sometimes trying to flood the mind with thoughts having nothing to do at all with intercourse can help send the game into bonus innings. Thinking about taxes, gross chicken jokes or even a television jingle can buy a man extra time. However, this tip comes with a caveat. Intentionally distracting yourself during sex might stretch the episode, but it can also make the experience less fun. Instead of being in the moment with a loved one, having a mental out-of-body experience means that enjoyment and intimacy is lost or at least postponed. Sometimes longer is better. Sometimes longer is just longer. Don't let the quest for a spicier sex life cause the endeavor to lose flavor |
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