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My Theory on Interpersonal Relations: (Men are 'stupid'/Women are 'crazy')  

uncommon12u 56M
9 posts
5/28/2013 10:26 pm
My Theory on Interpersonal Relations: (Men are 'stupid'/Women are 'crazy')

Women have what I would refer to as a 'stupidity threshold', or a tolerable level of stupidity in any given male, that they intend on having ANY type of relations with(platonic,acquantance,lover,etc..)

It's not static, and shifts over time, or depending upon the specific indivdual male.

Meaning that for any given need or task required, they(women) can tolerate more/less stupidity ie. A woman needs something fixed, moved, serviced..hehe...more stupidity tolerated, for short term needs..

Men conversely, have a 'craziness threshold'...
We can tolerate a whole lot o' crazy for our specific needs, but,(NO MATTER HOW FINE SHE IS) for extended relations, every man can only tolerate a certain amount of 'crazy'.

Of course this theory is more based on hormones, and genetics, so as to accomodate variations in orientation,ie; the 'bull dyke' chick is likely to have more of a, 'craziness threshold,vs. the 'stupidity threshold, and vice-vers. for the 'flaming gay boy'..

This thoery is also quite effective at explaining why women will tend to statistically go for older men, WE Become 'less stupid' as we age.Remember that it's mostly hormones, and as testosterone levels drop, we(men) become wiser..Might also explain the 'cougar' phenomena, but I have yet to factor the variables..

Hope this work in progress has been helpful, if not a little entertaining..Feel free to add your thoughts!!

skagirlami 61F
2 posts
8/29/2016 12:24 am
Women may have gone for older men in the past. However, these days I think that theory may have flown out the window. Older men, on this site anyway, are a drag. They're closed off, stand offish, paranoid, self entitled, treat women on this site like they don't have to be respectful, they're curt, secretive and act like they're 12 sometimes.

Boys, are fun. They don't dwell upon things that older men do. They just want to get together and have a great time. Only one man I met who was over 40 and a fantastic time. But this isn't the norm. I wish it was the standard but finding a fun man over the age of 40 and free of hang ups and baggage is a rarity. I've only found the one.

Finally, why doesn't anyone have a sense of humor anymore? I'm a funny girl, I've said some pretty hilarious things and the guy will pause in his chat, clearly to ponder, then he'll just continue on the story he was telling before you interrupted him.

These statements are mine alone.I might be completely wrong and women are choosing older men (maybe because younger guys don't message them) and if thats true, I apologize.

So many guys will back out at the last minute or they won't finalize plans to meet. If you're just on this site to have fun and games alone, don't write anyone. Play with yourself! Watch porn, play with your Fleshlight.

The exceptional ones, the uncommon1's, will keep trying for the women they want to meet. You have to love determination!! Thank God for the guys who really love women!


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