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It was something else....  

rm_makemepurr34 50F
263 posts
4/27/2018 12:49 am
It was something else....

Recently I was told I give up too easily. No. I'm sorry. I rarely give up on anything. Sometimes it is merely a test. Not for me as I know my worth and exactly what I bring to the table. But most people dispose of others once they get what they want or when circirmstances become challenging, I have to determine who is in it to win it and who is simply competing amongst others. Very few times in life I have ever had AND felt that immediate click/connection with people. That seriously freaks you out when it does happen. Sadly people have become so easily disposable these days, and when things have been said that do make sense but then at the same time don't. That's when I rely on your actions. Because actions show me who you are, what your true intentions are and exactly what you are made of. We can say all the right words but what happens when there is no actions to validate the words spoken? As I have gotten older, I have realized that I cannot trust words alone. Men and women will say things during our darkest hours with the truest of intentions but when it comes time to deliver on what they said, it's usually a huge let down. In our darkest days and hardest struggles, we truly do wish to rescued by but never are. So I did not give up. I had to see if you could and would prove your words. Appears you let false hope and false expectations succeed you. I appreciate the gesture of your words. But if I say I am going to do something for anyone, it is done or those words never are spoken by me. And I do expect the same from everyone. For I know well how it is to need. I know how it is to want. And too many times I have gone without. And I know all too what it is like to have absolutely no one in this world. So I always try to give. Always give what I can. Please understand I did not give up. If only you had delivered on any one of those 3 things that you said.



A wise girl knows her limits, a smart girl knows that she has none.

~Purr~


Devilish462 49M
35 posts
4/27/2018 7:04 pm

Perhaps it's merely a failure to maintain, or more than likely, establish a status-quo of the relationship(s). Actions or lack thereof can be misinterpreted without communication to afford an understanding.We, each and everyone, have different perspectives, regardless of parallels that can be drawn between viewpoints and desires.


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