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Plain Casual sex or a bit more?  

bed_or_bye 42M/111F   
17 posts
5/8/2019 1:47 am

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6/10/2021 10:22 pm

Plain Casual sex or a bit more?


Despite endorsing nonmonogamous sex and intimacy; one thing I would say basis my experience of "plain casual sex" is it is deeply dissatisfying. I never received complete pleasure; most of my body was left untouched, and there was no after-. More than there is an utter lack of conversation after I had sex with those partners. If there is no love and affection and body is the only vehicle; what is left to be talked? Is the lesson I got from those non-loving partners.

Just today when I had sex with my partner and he started by sucking my nipples; I chided him. "I'm not aroused fully and you have come at the nipples. First, arouse me." He then lavished me with ample foreplay and caress. Particularly as he glided his fingers down the back of my neck. I was left squealing out of pleasure. I could gain this confidence to communicate my sexual desire only in a relationship where I'm #respected and cared.

The takeaway is - Explore sex; you don't need to be exclusive with one person but do it only with someone who respects and cares for you.

hasgoneb4 47G
66 posts
5/14/2020 1:28 pm



OBE&III PRIMUS,..et al


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