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When the Past Comes Back to  

CookiesNMischief 38M
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5/6/2016 4:17 pm
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CookiesNMischief 38M

5/7/2016 9:48 pm
    Quoting Glamlife14:
    I am friends with all my ex lovers on FB. Why?? Because I am a grown ass woman who knows that who I was at 16..18...21.... Is not who I am today. I love seeing pictures of their kids and how life is turning out for them. We chat in emails from time to time ...comment on stuff.... But other then that... They are just like any other friend on FB., Boys and girls can be friends...really we can!! I guess I don't have any hard feelings or I am was never scared. Fear of the unknown or what could have been with love of the heart is the passion that keeps one wanting~
- I definitely like the different perspective as it basically smashes misconceptions and paranoia in favor of who I was then is NOT who I am now. And yes, water under the bridge that one can actually walk across without burning down should be a mantra everyone puts in their back pocket for safe keeping


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5/7/2016 9:11 pm

 I am friends with all my ex lovers on FB. Why?? Because I am a grown ass woman who knows that who I was at 16..18...21.... Is not who I am today. I love seeing pictures of their kids and how life is turning out for them. We chat in emails from time to time ...comment on stuff.... But other then that... They are just like any other friend on FB., Boys and girls can be friends...really we can!! I guess I don't have any hard feelings or I am was never scared. Fear of the unknown or what could have been with love of the heart is the passion that keeps one wanting~


CookiesNMischief 38M

5/6/2016 5:08 pm
    Quoting Honeydripper126:
    Sometimes we think we are totally over it . We think what harm could it do , but some where in the back of your mind some little voice is always telling you not to reach out . Listen to the little voice , our past when they start cropping back up in such ways , is clear they are thinking of you . Which means they are remembering you , and all the ways they were able to get past the armor .

    I adore the man you are would hate to see you hurt , knowing what an amazing woman you deserve ......tread carefully dear Cookie
- I think Honey, my line of thinking has it confused with being "horny" and wanting. At this point in my life, I rather keep things status quo and not relive the good times for the sake of a few moments of passion.

The same friend of mine stated to me a few months back, the best times of his life was during high school. It got me thinking, if high school would be the very top of what life has to offer, then my friend, you're selling yourself quite short. In that regard, I could look at it the same way.

I'm doing well, and it's been quite a long while since our relationship ended.

No worries, I'll continue being the kind of Cookie you enjoy reading about in the blogs


CookiesNMischief 38M

5/6/2016 5:05 pm
    Quoting BrownEyedBBW:
    Two things.

    First, Exs are exs for a very good reason. If it was that good you would have grown together and it would still e going on. It's not and that speaks volumes.

    Second, the human mind does a funny thing. Our minds tend to remember the good of a situation and downplay the not so good.

    What do I do? I tell my friend to ignore her request and I avoid her like the plague. It's one thing to savor the stray memory of an old lover, it's quite another thing to open up a can orf worms thinking it might be glitter.
- I'm mostly thinking out loud, I don't intend to follow through the aspiring some sort of connection. It was resolved shortly afterward when my friend stated he'll keep her pending.

For me, life is good as is right now; I don't intend to subscribe to the issues from the past - that type of paper tends to yellow after a while.


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
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5/6/2016 4:59 pm

 Two things.

First, Exs are exs for a very good reason. If it was that good you would have grown together and it would still e going on. It's not and that speaks volumes.

Second, the human mind does a funny thing. Our minds tend to remember the good of a situation and downplay the not so good.

What do I do? I tell my friend to ignore her request and I avoid her like the plague. It's one thing to savor the stray memory of an old lover, it's quite another thing to open up a can orf worms thinking it might be glitter.


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