51299 posts 9/23/2015 3:58 am
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+_+ Bullying ? I was listening to my favorite Talk Show on the radio. They were discussing Bullying in the workplace! It seems to be more and more pervasive . I have never tolerated Bullying attempts toward me and certainly never participated in it. My tact was to directly confront any protagonists and do what was necessary to resolve their issue. After I retired from the military and went to work in the Corporate world, it become more clear to me that many Bullys in the work place were doing It to climb the career ladder. To me they were like shooting ducks in a barrel when they tried me on. My question (s),,, Have you been, or are you now a victim of bullying? How have you or are you coping with it? Do you support anti bullying efforts? Do you think that confronting a bully works?
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24388 posts 9/23/2015 4:29 am |
I have never been bullied as an adult. Any childhood occurrences are lost to memory .... which makes me suspect they weren't successful attempts.
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3447 posts 9/23/2015 4:53 am |
I have noticed that most bullys are cowards. Going for what they think is the weak. Don't even try it with me, they will pay for it
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21770 posts 9/23/2015 5:37 am |
i was bullied when I was youth, but i realized you have to stand up and the bully's usually back down....I had to fight a couple of times.
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45821 posts 9/23/2015 6:09 am |
Quoting superbjversion2: I have never been bullied as an adult. Any childhood occurrences are lost to memory .... which makes me suspect they weren't successful attempts.
I went to school in a mixed city folks and farm folks. At that time (late 1960's) the city folks thought it cool to bully us farm boys. In our case we had about ten male cousins within a couple grades. Bully attempts on us dropped off very quickly when we took them behind the school
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45821 posts 9/23/2015 6:10 am |
Very good, not tolerating it is the best strategy
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45821 posts 9/23/2015 6:13 am |
I agree, do not allow them to gain momentum . Squash it quickly. verbally is usually the best way. And whenever possible and I observe it with children, I intervene, at least escorting the child to safety
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45821 posts 9/23/2015 6:14 am |
Quoting SimpleLatina: I have noticed that most bullys are cowards. Going for what they think is the weak. Don't even try it with me, they will pay for it
I agree, show them the errors of their way and do not tolerate them
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45821 posts 9/23/2015 7:39 am |
Quoting veryfunnycple64: i was bullied when I was youth, but i realized you have to stand up and the bully's usually back down....I had to fight a couple of times.
When it gets intense and physical, especially with young boys, sometimes a fight is inevitable.
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45821 posts 9/23/2015 7:44 am |
I guess it depends on the person being bullied's personality whether confrontation is appropriate. My definition of bullying is when the problem gets intense or physical. Kids are always bickering, and that is natural. Now days I can not endure watching someone being bullied
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81699 posts 9/23/2015 8:08 am |
People try to bully me at school when I was younger and also on this site. I am just happy I have some really nice friends on here who help me through it. It isn't a great feeling at all when your the victim. hugsssssssssss V
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41171 posts 9/23/2015 9:06 am |
I've never been a bully. Since leaving school, I've never been bullied thankfully!
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107039 posts 9/23/2015 10:09 am |
I have to say well if they are goin to dish it to this nice bitch, they get bitch slapped back without even knowing it.. Great blog today..happy hump day..
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45821 posts 9/23/2015 2:48 pm |
Quoting sweet_VM: People try to bully me at school when I was younger and also on this site. I am just happy I have some really nice friends on here who help me through it. It isn't a great feeling at all when your the victim. hugsssssssssss V
That is what friends should do, gather and assist with any bullys
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45821 posts 9/23/2015 2:50 pm |
Quoting spunkycumfun: I've never been a bully. Since leaving school, I've never been bullied thankfully!
That is great. Do you see it much in the academic world?
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45821 posts 9/23/2015 2:53 pm |
I do agree, there always has and always will be that give and take with children and as you said, co workers. And that is not bullying. My concern is when it goes over board to physical, or prolonged verbal at one person
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45821 posts 9/23/2015 2:55 pm |
Quoting Tmptrzz: I have to say well if they are goin to dish it to this nice bitch, they get bitch slapped back without even knowing it.. Great blog today..happy hump day..
When it gets that excessive, I agree, stand up and make them pay
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45821 posts 9/23/2015 2:57 pm |
Quoting donamorous: I was bullied in grade school because I was quiet and shy, and the kids thought that I was an easy mark. They tortured me for about three weeks until on the advise of my dad I took the biggest one and thoroughly kicked he ass. I wasn't a big fellow but I was mean and strong as hell back in the day. I don't advise this course of action now. But back in the late 60's it was the best course of action. Bullying is plain wrong and is only done by idiots who have low self esteem.
We did the same back in the sixties. Can't do it now, but oh how effective it was back then
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41171 posts 9/24/2015 12:20 am |
Quoting pal334: That is great. Do you see it much in the academic world?
Thankfully I don't see too much bullying in academia.
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10248 posts 9/24/2015 5:25 am |
45 years ago,bullying was quite abundant in school. not recognized as a problem,not dealt with. confronting made it worse
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