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You either have it or you don’t  

evergrnstatewife 53M/63F
1582 posts
9/10/2013 9:43 am
You either have it or you don’t


Last night I came into bed. My wife was watching a movie on Lifetime.
“What are you watching?” I asked.
“Some horrific movie,” she replied. “It’s almost over.”

The movie was about a women having an affair with a man, whom didn't fully like the fact she was married.

I crawled in next to her and cuddled up behind her. I was in the process of closing my eyes when she said, “it reminds me of Todd.”
“Who’s Todd?” I replied.

It took me a second to remember. But thanks to my wife, I did.

After Ron and her ended their relationship, she expressed an interest in continuing to have sex with other men.
We talked, and cleared up a lot of feelings and misgivings with Ron, and decided exploring cuckolding would be appropriate.
Todd was a fellow that replied to our ad.
He was in his early 40’s at the time, single, with blonde hair and blue eyes. He inexperienced, but had a fantasy of being with a couple. From our replies, he was the best suited, I guess, but never had done anything close to this prior.
His emails were nice, descriptive, polite, and forthcoming, so my wife decided she wanted to meet him.
I stayed behind, which is something we still do today.

They had a nice connection, but he was very shy. My wife likes public affection, not the typical grope under the table, but subtle touches and kisses sort of thing.
Todd had a tough time with that, even after a<b> steamy </font></b>make-out session in the car after date number two where he showed her his cock, which was quite big.
My wife was certainly interested in him as she explained our wants, and Todd seemed very attracted and capable of fulfilling them for her.
Soon it would be my turn to meet him. We all decided on meeting at a eatery for appetizers.
My first impression of Todd was he seemed very ridged.
When we arrived she approached him to kiss him, but Todd seemed uncomfortable with the gesture.
Long story short, it was an uncomfortable experience really for us all.
It was if this was a plutonic get together, as he showed no romantic interest in my wife.
She didn’t like the mixed signals as it was a week before where she stroked his cock inside our car.
Todd cleared up the mixed signals with her later on through an email, excusing them on nerves.
My wife would go on to fuck him a handful of times after that. He did have a big cock, but he didn’t know how to use it. She fucked all at his house, and when she suggested moving it to ours, Todd became wishy-washy, explaining he wasn’t comfortable having sex with her with me around.

I know, his ‘fantasy’ of being with a couple, right?
It was very soon after that my wife ended it with him. He just wasn’t the right fit, and not as forthcoming as his emails led us to believe.
Todd wasn’t a bull.
He had no idea what a cuckolding relationship was.
Todd wanted the friends with bennys thing, but didn’t want the fact she’s married with a supportive husband.
That’s okay. Don’t get me wrong, whatever he wanted is fine, just don’t include or manipulate us in the process of fulfilling your own needs.
Looking back, I think our relationship is intimidating to most men, unless you’re involved in the lifestyle. It certainly was to Todd. He couldn’t even touch her with me across the table from them, which was something she really likes.
I think that’s difference between bulls and men. A bull understands the dynamics of the relationship. A bull isn’t intimidated by our bond or openness. A bull will touch her, kiss her, and fuck her, openly, and not hide it.

We still get emails from guys like Todd all the time. It’s funny how they term things and build themselves up as this huge fuck godlike figure that could and can fulfill all her fantasies and desires.

I’m sure you can.


Shared wife -evergreenstatewife


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