49 posts 9/20/2012 9:08 pm
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Top 10 reasons to swing....
This is NOT all my own, I tweaked it a little, but found some of this info online & just thought it was too good not to share.
Top Ten Reasons to Swing
10. Swingers are fun to be around.
Swingers are exciting and fun to be with. They are happy, honest, vibrant, intelligent, attractive and very friendly. Swingers are great fun at parties, picnics, movies, dinner, ball games and any place people go for fun and recreation. Just think how much more fun it would be to attend all these functions with swingers. The next time you see a group of people laughing and having fun, you may even wonder….Hmmmm, are they swingers?
9. A Healthy Lifestyle.
Most swing clubs discourage heavy alcohol consumption and prohibit drug use. Swinging can provide good cardio exercise. Even experts say sex can use 250 calories. The best way to stay healthy, keep on that diet and avoid colds is to know there is a party coming up soon.
8. Dress-up isn’t just for .
The lifestyle is an environment that gives opportunity to dress more daringly. You can now show off those things you used to buy at sex shops or by catalog. Nobody will laugh, if anything you might get cheers. You will not get arrested, assaulted or laughed at. Most women and men enjoy dressing up and strutting their stuff. Many clubs have theme nights so you can dress in costume.
7. Fantasies can actually come true.
Have you ever dreamed of two women? Or wanted to be with someone of your own sex? Maybe sharing yourself with a stranger? Someone to watch you? Or possibly watching others is a turn on? If you can think of it, you’ll most likely find it in the lifestyle. Swinging is about consensual and discreet participants hosting your fantasy. Knowing you can stop the play at any time gives you courage to try new things. You may even learn new fantasies.
6. Improve your sexual technique.
Some things need to be seen and experienced, not just read about. The experts (whoever they are) say that there are as many ways to swing as there are swingers. So get out there and learn some new techniques!
5. Being attractive isn’t just an ego boost but healthy as well.
This is a good reason to go into swinger lifestyle since you’ll need to maintain a healthy diet and exercising to be “desirable.” Many times people stop maintaining our attractiveness when we “settle down.” Not everyone can look like Barbie, and I am thankful for that. I like diversity in size, shapes, ages and sexual practices. Be attractive in your attitude and you will have many successful sexual encounters.
4. Variety is the spice of life.
Life is a smorgasbord of delights. Swingers are not lacking in variety. Your partner may be delicious but why limit yourself? What are you looking for in a partner? Chiseled washerboard abs? Boobs enough for two? A penis to make a green with envy? Or maybe it’s something simple like redheads? No problem, the look you want is out there you just have to look for it.
3. New, lasting friendships.
If you’re lucky , you have a couple of really good friends. If you start meeting swingers you probably get several more. In the swinger lifestyle , you can meet other couples that share your interests at a more intimate level than your run-of-the-mill friends. Building long trusting relationships is vital to any swinger’s life. Not all encounters lead to long friendships. Some couples and singles you meet are “get in, get off and go home.” Others become extraordinary friends. You know their families, do things outside the swinging community, and are connected to their “secular” life. We have friends we travel with, share family outings with and are involved in their lives. Then we also have the benefit of sex, it is all good.
2. Not only more but, better friends.
It is sad that jealousy and other issues break so many friendships and couples. Swinging can bring many good things to friendships. In the lifestyle you need not hide anything. The second best reason to swing is the positive effects it can have on friendships. There is no reason to hide your desire for your friend’s partner when that desire is openly welcomed. There is no reason to be fearful of your partner having an affair behind your back when you enjoy watching and joining in.
1. And most importantly playing along with your partner.
“The couple that plays together ….” Arriving to a party, having lots of sex and non-monogamous fun and then leaving as a couple. It is what makes the swinger lifestyle different from others. You don’t always see partners together but when everyone heads home we are still a couple. It’s not about sharing your partner with someone else it’s about enjoying yourselves while at the same time opening to receive someone else into your fun. Sharing experiences builds a solid relationship. |
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