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Damn I have been Foxed over and over again  

golosa1115 62F
550 posts
1/18/2016 12:46 am
Damn I have been Foxed over and over again
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Wanton_Wench2 62F  
1027 posts
1/18/2016 2:01 am

 simple, ALL men are tarts , sadly
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golosa1115 replies on 1/18/2016 8:41 am:
I know, but I like to think there is some romance still left in the opposite sex. Thanks for your comment.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/18/2016 2:40 am

 You don't want to be with any guy you find on the internet, the very first time, for more than 30 minutes. This is a meeting, not a date. There shouldn't be eating, there really shouldn't be drinking either. Your goal is to mingle, see if there is any chemistry, and if there isn't, be adult enough to say, "Nope, no chemistry" and walk away.


golosa1115 replies on 1/18/2016 8:51 am:
Idk it seems odd to talk to someone for less than half an hour to see if there is any chemistry. I believe that not everyone is so suave upon meeting a stranger, worst yet a stranger with no intention of a full course meal but being totally nude and having intercourse. Sound like something I should add to my profile, bring your own bottled water. I believe my throat would be dry from nerves and or from the interview. Basically that's what it sounds like. I guess it be also good to prepare a resume in reference to sex. Something to function like a lie detector.

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
1/18/2016 4:46 am

 you have to take time to get to know the person first by chatting and emails, then by meeting, just have to take it slowly, and then see where it goes


golosa1115 replies on 1/18/2016 8:58 am:
That's what I thought from the other site where I had been. But since this is a sex site, man want to make sure they are going to get laid. They don't want to chat or message. In fact I can see it in their writing when after 2-3 messages they are desperate to meet and will ask "Are we going to meet or not" "lets cut the chase" The funny thing is these are the ones that seem to be collecting how many hits they had in a month or week Some of them seem to have a short fuse, imagine if these met, what will they be like after having met. Thanks for you comment.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/18/2016 3:09 pm
    Quoting notsure1949:
    you have to take time to get to know the person first by chatting and emails, then by meeting, just have to take it slowly, and then see where it goes
know the person first by chatting and emails .... No . Nobody gets to know anyone by "Chatting via IM" and "Emails". That is the easiest way to create a complete fictional character.

People still have to meet organically to have substantial real knowledge of the other. For dating sites, that means to find out, in person, if there is any actual chemistry.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/18/2016 3:29 pm

 golosa1115 replies on 1/18/2016 8:51 am:
Idk it seems odd to talk to someone for less than half an hour to see if there is any chemistry. I believe that not everyone is so suave upon meeting a stranger, worst yet a stranger with no intention of a full course meal but being totally nude and having intercourse. Sound like something I should add to my profile, bring your own bottled water. I believe my throat would be dry from nerves and or from the interview. Basically that's what it sounds like. I guess it be also good to prepare a resume in reference to sex. Something to function like a lie detector.

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Nobody is totally nude and having intercourse upon first meeting with them. What gave you that idea?

You set up a first meeting , to sit down across from each other, in public, and talk. See where it all goes. This shouldn't take much longer than 30 minutes.

You also take the necessary precautions, for your own safety.

If they won't do that, then you don't need to continue having contact with them.

Yes, treat the situation like an interview, because that's exactly what it is.


golosa1115 replies on 1/22/2016 8:04 am:
I wasn't talking about the meeting. I am talking about the main reason for the meet, which is to see if sex will be possible with this person. By stranger I mean, that just because you had a less than half an hour to yap the person continues to being a stranger. But I had only one meet that was done somewhat by the rules you mentioned. It was in the persons car in a very cold day in front of a public area. It was the longest day of my life. I had just left my job and didn't want to carry anything to the meet so I left my bottle of water upstairs. Biggest mistake ever, I wish I would've followed the less than 30 minute interview rule but than again maybe it was less than 30 minutes but being stuck in a car just talking made it feel like 4ever.

missthee 58F  
4511 posts
1/19/2016 3:14 am

 I don't expect men to go out of their way or to do anything beyond their means. But I do want to take my time to figure out their m.o.
You are right emails and chat is not really helpful in that respect. Talking to them over the phone or skype is better. The conversation is spontaneous, unscripted, and difficult to mask one's intention or mood.
At the first instance during our conversation I sense something is not right [for me] I know it should not progress to an actual meeting. The problem with talking to men in my age range, they often end up sounding like "dirty old men" in their eagerness to get to second base.


golosa1115 replies on 1/22/2016 8:12 am:
Thanks for your comment. Idk about man in your or my age grp being dirty old men. I see the same behavior with most of the young guys in fact even more so. I think young guys don't want to waste their time, its all about hooking up. I think to them its more about the quantity. I think older man believe that we just shouldn't waste time, we are older not getting any younger, we should know what we want and time is not something they feel they have much to waste.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/22/2016 3:21 pm
    Quoting missthee:
    I don't expect men to go out of their way or to do anything beyond their means. But I do want to take my time to figure out their m.o.
    You are right emails and chat is not really helpful in that respect. Talking to them over the phone or skype is better. The conversation is spontaneous, unscripted, and difficult to mask one's intention or mood.
    At the first instance during our conversation I sense something is not right [for me] I know it should not progress to an actual meeting. The problem with talking to men in my age range, they often end up sounding like "dirty old men" in their eagerness to get to second base.
talking to men in my age range, they often end up sounding like "dirty old men"

Well this is a sex site. So yeah, second base would be fine.

Match or Eharmony, first meetings would be noticeably different. Some in part too, because they didn't find your profile of you wearing a bra , reclining on a bed.

Also, straight men, from any site, or any where, are motivated to meet with women based on how she looks, and if he is at all healthy, the other motivation is sex.


golosa1115 replies on 3/26/2016 11:00 pm:
I had been a member of another before coming here for about 2 yrs. The site with a lot of rules. a picture with a subliminal message or a revealing top would get the picture banned and if repeated one or two more time a person was taken the right to upload pictures. Man there invited with the idea of brunch and some chat, but basically the idea was sex

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