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A to Z of the Deviant's Dictionary  

rm__FORGED_ 51M
574 posts
6/5/2012 7:22 am
A to Z of the Deviant's Dictionary


I'm going to school.

I have pulled the from a local site dedicated to the BDSM lifestyle. I'm reading the Deviant's Dictionary to learn the lingo.

I was thinking to share this one letter of the alphabet at a time with all yall starting with the A's. I would like you to keep in mind something from each of these posts that you are attracted to or didn't know that you were attracted to (or even something that turns our crank but didn't know the name for lol! ) I'll share the name of mine at the end.

Let's get started:

Ablutophilia
Fetish for baths or showers; not to be confused with ablutophobia, a morbid fear of bathing or showering.
Abrasion
Stimulating the surface of the body with abrasive materials, for example, rough silk, chamois leather, fine sandpaper, brushes, wire wool. An often overlooked but surprisingly effective set of techniques, especially on a blindfolded bottom.
Acrophilia
Sexual arousal from being in high places. Definitely not be confused with acrophobia, a morbid fear of heights.
Adult babies
May refer to those who gain fetishistic satisfaction from dressing up in infants' clothing and using associated objects like nappies and cribs; may also indicate those who enjoy elaborate role-playing scenes in which they act out the part of a baby as fully as possible.
Aftercare
Communication after scenes is part of what is called aftercare. Aftercare is a process after a scene when the partners typically cuddle, and may discuss the good and bad parts of the scene.
Aftershock
A form of shock caused by the application of pain to the body. Effects and symptons may include trembling, feeling of cold, exhaustion, and confusion.
Age play
Play that involves taking on the role of someone of a different age. Most commonly, adults take on the role of , perhaps in a submissive capacity.
Agonophilia
Pseudo-, pretend struggle or<b> wrestling </font></b>play as a form of foreplay.
Agoraphilia
Arousal from having sex in public places.
Agrexophilia
Excitement from knowing that others are aware of a persons sexual activities.
Algolagnia
Love of pain, from the Greek. Psychological term to describe SM preferred by sexologist Havelock Ellis, who saw it as "pain given in love." Perhaps useful to describe that element of SM that is about the enjoyment of pain itself rather than acting out domination and submission.
Altocalciphilia
Fetish for high heels.
Alternative lifestyle
Any sexual preference that is different from the generally accepted social norm.
Alternative sexuality
A sexual orientation with a few variations that differ from vaginal intercourse when a monogamous heterosexual relationship has been established.
Always
Attempted at all times and at least accomplished more then 50% of the time. Often used in conjunction with an assertion of good behavior (see "brat").
Amaurophilia
Excitement from having a partner who is unable to see them during sex.
Ampallang
Horizontal piercing through the glans penis.
Anal beads
A string of beads inserted into the anus.
Anal plug
Anal vibrator or anal plug designed to stimulate the anus.
Animal training
Play in which one partner takes on the role of an Animal, and the other partner is the trainer.
Ankle restraint
Bondage device that restrains the ankles.
Apadrayva
Vertical piercing through the glans penis.
Aphephilia
Deriving pleasure from being touched.
Arab strap
A strap that goes round the penis and testicles.
Asphyxiaphilia
Breath control.
Autagonistophilia
Arousal from being on stage, being in front of a camera or in the public eye.
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Agoraphilia - arousal from having sex in public places... Yes, I am definately aroused by even the thought of having sex in public places!

How about you? Which out of these A's do you identify with?

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rm__FORGED_ 51M
628 posts
6/7/2012 4:24 pm

    Quoting mocetar7:
    Ablutophillia
    Agoraphillia
    Aphephillia
    .
    .
    .
    Hmmm.... They're all so vanilla, aren't they?

    I guess it must be the rigour and frequency which the above are applied/exercised that brings them into the bdsm realm?
Yeah. Common terms and fetishes. It's easier to give them a name than to explain then everytime to build a scene. Much like a car salesman would use certain terms to tell his manager about the customer he's with. Lingo... Like an engineer speaking with another engineer, or doctor to doctor. So everyone is on the same page sort of thing.

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mocetar7 54M
1940 posts
6/5/2012 10:32 pm

Ablutophillia
Agoraphillia
Aphephillia
.
.
.
Hmmm.... They're all so vanilla, aren't they?

I guess it must be the rigour and frequency which the above are applied/exercised that brings them into the bdsm realm?


forujules 51F  
3074 posts
6/5/2012 1:25 pm

Agoraphilia - arousal from having sex in public places... Yes, I am definately aroused by even the thought of having sex in public places!

SERIOUSLY Mr F? Seriously? lol... smiles, and thinks we really need to meet one day LOL... that's my thoughts to you on this subject. however, i did read it, well i was pulling up a very sheer thong up around my tiny ass and the designer was calvin klein...

Come leave me some thoughts forujules I'd love to read them~xo~


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