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Beyond Upset...
Beyond Upset... Ok so some of you may have noticed that I don't answer my messages like I use to. Quite frankly I am just so tired of so many people thinking it's perfectly fine to waste my time and act like they want something they don't, act interested when they really aren't, make plans when they have no intention of following through. And I'm not just talking about one or two people here and there doing this...this is pattern with I would say 9 out of every 10 men that I've chatted with. I'm seriously blown away!! Why even be on the site?! Why would you even waste your money for that matter?! It's pure insanity!! So that got me thinking...How can I weed out the time wasters and players from the ones that might be serious, what can I try that I haven't already tried? Well one thing I have noticed just from looking around on the site is some of the women have loads of fans and I mean hundreds where as I have only ever had a handful at a time. Men always like to message me talking a lot of shit and wasting my time but yet are fans of other women. Hmm that doesn't really make a lot of sense so I have decided that I would start giving priority to my fans and ONLY my fans and see if that changes things at all. Cause it really does all come down to you aren't going to be a top fan of another woman and then try to get me into bed...sweetheart there might be a lot of dumb women on this site but I'm not one of them. I might not say a lot but I see through a lot of the games. As they say talk is cheap...lets see some action for a change cause this site is really boring me to tears. There have to be some real men on here who actually want what they say they want and aren't playing all these games. I think I have been more than patient with a few of you on here and you know who you are and I have now wiped my hands of you...done with your games, you can find some other chick that will play them cause I've had enough. Sorry if this post seems mean but something seriously has to change and I don't want to have to ignore everyone |
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Senior Sizzle comes and goes with periods of BS and I'm sorry you're having to deal with the players on the site. From the male perspective, it can be the same experience and I reached the point I stopped as a paid subscriber. There are real folks here who are seeking what they say they are seeking, but it can be hard to filter through the players. I think what you wrote epitomizes the typical experience for an Senior Sizzle user. BTW, I've heard so many folks mention than plans were made and they never happened. I agree with you in why is someone on the site if they have no intention of following through when they connect with someone. Akinete
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I have an actual set process that I follow that has let me weed out the deadwood pretty efficiently: The Protocol Also, I don't bother with that Top Fans nonsense. If a man is really serious about meeting me, he needs to send me a message so we can have a dialogue. being a fan, flirting and hotlisting are all kind of lazy. I'm also willing to walk away from any man at any point in the process, no exceptions, no do overs. All of this is predicated on this: If I'm interested in meeting you, I have a certain level of commitment to meeting you. I can't see into your head so, like you said, talk is cheap. If a man has that same level of commitment to meeting me, he'll want to move as slowly as I do.
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Here's what I think is funny... I've BEEN a fan of you. I've sent you messages, both on this account and another that I use. Not once have you ever responded to a message or an instant message. I've tried to contact you over a dozen times in the last two years. We've never talked. You've never seen a picture of me. There's not one reason for you not to at least say "hello" but you never have. I would be, and have been, completely serious about meeting you for months. You're responding to the wrong people girl, and then crying about it.
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I'd say it's that attitude that has you "Beyond Upset". Suit yourself.
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9/28/2018 12:58 pm |
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